You don't have any sympathy at all for the GF, do you? Its all about you, isn't it Paro?
Selfish and stupid, sounds like.
Do you know for sure you are clean? No STDs? You should get checked, this guy is obviously a turd, I don't know how you can be sure you are the only side dish he's been on.
If you find out you have some kind of ick, try to do the right thing and let this gal know.
Sorry I can't muster much sympathy for you, except to say: Live Forever, Learn Everything. If it helps, this guy would be shredded by this forum if he ever had the balls to post.
Last edited by IndiReloaded; 03-08-09 at 02:54 PM.
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