Marriage?

[lesa]

.... and marriage obviously doesnt mean forever lol.

I like to think and hope that marriage is forever. At least when I get the courage to do it, I hope it will be 'til death. If you already think it won't be forever, then it will not.

[misombra]

do you two have sex?

[mtinlove]

Lesa when i say i know that sex doesnt always mean forever, i mean that there is divorce out there and obviously it doesnt work everybody...I hope that when he makes the step to ask me to marry him that he is thinking forever because I am already thinking forever with him.

Misombra yes we have sex...we have already made a life together there just isnt a shared last name...everything else is like we already are married.

[misombra]

Lesa when i say i know that sex doesnt always mean forever, i mean that there is divorce out there and obviously it doesnt work everybody...I hope that when he makes the step to ask me to marry him that he is thinking forever because I am already thinking forever with him.

Misombra yes we have sex...we have already made a life together there just isnt a shared last name...everything else is like we already are married.

do you use protection? condoms? the pill?

[PussyCatDoll]

i want to be married by the age of 23.

for me its a totally different thing altogether. i live in a totally modern yet traditional environment where there are one set of standards for girls and one set for guys.

being married for me is having, independence, freedom and a best friend forever.

[misombra]

get married all you want, just please don't reproduce yourselves.

[bluesummer]

thats rude. i dont need that advice thanks

I think you read Indi the wrong way. She simply meant that you have some personal growth to attend to before you should consider marriage, is all.

I'm 28 and was married at 24 just for LOVE and am now divorced. Didn;t realize at the time how much really goes into it. I can tell you for a fact that I'm not the same person I was then, and my priorities in life have changed, as well as my outlook on life, relationships, and myself as a person. Don't rush into anything.

[Junket]

If someone asked you to pool all your financial resources in a business venture, assume 50% of all risk & liability, would you do it? Just because you love them?

Marriage is no different, darling. Don't let the hormones cloud your good judgement.

Love is good, but it is only small part of what makes a great marriage.

"Marry in haste, repent at leisure." Its an old truism for a reason.

Prenup.

I'm gonna get one when I get married, if my partner doesn't agree with it, then I'm not getting married.

[mtinlove]

wow there are some rude ass people on this site..dont reproduce? I plan on having children thanks

True I do need to do some personal growing up before I give myself completely to someone. Everyday is a learning experience and between the time of my post to today some things have happened and I am definitely not ready for marriage...not for a cpl years.

[misombra]

what is she gonna take, your broken down honda?

[vashti]

Prenups are unnecessary if you don't have a significant amount of assets going in...

[Junket]

what is she gonna take, your broken down honda?

The less I have, the more it'll hurt when she takes it.

Prenups just make things easy when you're done.

Marriage is fubar, we live too long to assume we'll be together forever.

[twisted]

i see where you are coming from. when my current fiance said he was apprehensive about buying together at first i took it the same way=he doesn't want that big of a commitment. but then we talked about it and i realised that that wasn't at all the case. we are the same age.

[misombra]

i've never seen any guy who wants to marry a woman who's just out to marry whoever she can get for the sake of being married.

[mtinlove]

nobody said they were out for the sake just to get married. i didnt want to marry or have children until i met him...im not big on dating but i fell in love with my boyfriend... if we broke up i would honestly move on with my life alone like i originally planned. you need to get the stick out of your ass buddy cuz you got some issues.