Girlfriend in bed with friend

[IndiReloaded]

If I was staying at a friends place & my BF puked all over our bed b/c he was drunk I'd probably sleep in my friends bed too, esp if there wasn't anything else available (like a couch). What do you expect? That she should sleep on the floor like an animal b/c you can't control yourself?

[1averagejoe]

Wth is soo wrong with sleeping on the floor? Done it plenty of times.

Harden the **** up. People take floors for granted, what if you were homeless?

[IndiReloaded]

There's nothing wrong w/sleeping on a floor, 1AJ. I've done it. But never b/c my partner got so drunk & was unable to control himself sicking up.

If he was that sick, then he should have slept on the floor. Preferably the bathroom floor so he was close to the toilet.

Did this guy even think to apologize to her for driving her out of the bed he soiled?

[1averagejoe]

Did this guy even think to apologize to her for driving her out of the bed he soiled?

Well it was his bed...I would expect him to appologize to her if it was her bed. Plus they were all drunk so don't expect much of anything out of them.

Also you're basically justifying her sleeping in the same bed with his friend because he was too drunk? I don't know, she was still wrong...but so was he.

I wouldn't be surprised if the friend took advantage of her...she was drunk, and well, it happens.

[IndiReloaded]

I wouldn't be surprised if the friend took advantage of her...she was drunk, and well, it happens.

That's true. Either she trusted him or was too gone to care. I guess it would depend on how good a friend that other fellow was.

[runcmd3]

there was another empty bed in the room between mine and the one they slept in

[IndiReloaded]

Ha! Really? How come you are telling us this bit of info just now?

Am starting to think you're a troll. Or a boozehead.

[Charlie Boy II]

yeah that makes the incident much more suspect.

[IndiReloaded]

Assuming its true. Tho he did say his GF likes to sit on this guys lap.

If its true, then ya he's got a problem w/those two.

[HUNT3R]

there was another empty bed in the room between mine and the one they slept in

That's a very important bit you left out! I can't see any excuse that would justify them sleeping in the same bed then. If it was me, I'd have a hard time trusting either of them again, if ever.

[runcmd3]

That's a very important bit you left out! I can't see any excuse that would justify them sleeping in the same bed then. If it was me, I'd have a hard time trusting either of them again, if ever.

not even the excuse that she was already in the bed and she was too drunk to get out? i didnt believe it either

[alter_ego]

I really don't see the problem here...

You puking all over the bed is far more serious than what she did...
It was your best friend and your GF, don't you have any trust/faith in your friendship and their sense of loyalty?

Why are all men so jealous?! I don't get it...

[runcmd3]

i have absolutely no faith/trust in my friend

[alter_ego]

i have absolutely no faith/trust in my friend

Then you need new friends...
Trust and loyalty is what friendship is all about.

A friend to me is not someone that I can hang out with and drink beer. A friend is some one who sticks around and offers support when my entire world is collapsing.

Fine, you don't trust this guy, but if you do trust your gf then that would be sufficient... no harm done.

[runcmd3]

but she was drunk... it changes things