Over the internet?

[Miss hotty]

Yes i have we were in same country but at different ends. You just ahve to understand this girl yes maybe she dose want to meet you but i shared as us girls have to be careful with things like this

[Tiay]

IT NEVER ****ING WORKS.

look at my mom. ever since she divorced my dad she has been meeting random people off the internet. none of them worked out.

oh wow, you have actual proof. Somehow, when an internet/LD relationship doesn't work, it is proof that those relationships never work. The overwhelming amount of completely regular, real life relationships that also don't work out, however, doesn't equally indicate that all real life relationships are doomed from the start.
If your mom had started meeting lots of random people in real life and it didn't work out, you would not be saying "man, real life relationships NEVER work". no, you'd have some other reason for it, like that your mom was on the rebound or he was a jerk or whatever.

beamer:
do what makes you happy.

and please learn the difference between "they're" (short for "they are") and "their" (possessive adjective, as in "it's their house"), and "there" (adverb, as in "look over there")

[anachronistic]

Thanks for your vote of confidence.

Dick.

it's not a vote of confidence, it's advice. your relationship isn't even over the internet, so don't be calling me names.

[anachronistic]

oh wow, you have actual proof. Somehow, when an internet/LD relationship doesn't work, it is proof that those relationships never work. The overwhelming amount of completely regular, real life relationships that also don't work out, however, doesn't equally indicate that all real life relationships are doomed from the start.
If your mom had started meeting lots of random people in real life and it didn't work out, you would not be saying "man, real life relationships NEVER work". no, you'd have some other reason for it, like that your mom was on the rebound or he was a jerk or whatever.

this is a good point. but, it's not only my mom, it's everyone i know. i don't know a single person that has had a lasting relationship that lead to marriage and happiness. there is a whole other side to a person that you don't get to know just because it's over the internet.

on the other hand, i know people that have LDRs that turned out great.

edit: whoops, hope nobody saw taht...

[beamer]

oh wow, you have actual proof. Somehow, when an internet/LD relationship doesn't work, it is proof that those relationships never work. The overwhelming amount of completely regular, real life relationships that also don't work out, however, doesn't equally indicate that all real life relationships are doomed from the start.
If your mom had started meeting lots of random people in real life and it didn't work out, you would not be saying "man, real life relationships NEVER work". no, you'd have some other reason for it, like that your mom was on the rebound or he was a jerk or whatever.

beamer:
do what makes you happy.

and please learn the difference between "they're" (short for "they are") and "their" (possessive adjective, as in "it's their house"), and "there" (adverb, as in "look over there")

what can i say, i study esl >_<

[Tiay]

what can i say, i study esl >_<

oh, I should add, being broke because you can't afford to travel all the time will make you unhappy. so when I say do what makes you happy, I don't mean you should just spontaneously go for it, I mean you should consider very carefully if this has a chance of working and therefore making you happy.

i don't know a single person that has had a lasting relationship that lead to marriage and happiness.

geez that's sad. Though, anybody who's happily married today is unlikely to have met on the internet, because they didn't really have the internet and the tons of dating sites back then.

there is a whole other side to a person that you don't get to know just because it's over the internet.

true. people have to meet in real life.

on the other hand, i know people that have LDRs that turned out great.

there you go

[Ephemeral Dream]

it's not a vote of confidence, it's advice. your relationship isn't even over the internet, so don't be calling me names.

Stop being such a girl.

[beamer]

financial issue is not matter to me =p

[anachronistic]

Stop being such a girl.

'nuff said.

[Steve2004]

'nuff said.

bahahahahahahaha.

[Ephemeral Dream]

'nuff said.

You should follow your own advice.

[anachronistic]

You should follow your own advice.

that's usually what people say when they know they got owned. continue via pm, it is wrong to derail someone's elses thread.

[Ephemeral Dream]

that's usually what people say when they know they got owned.

That's just utterly stupid. Didn't expect more from you anyway.

[anachronistic]

That's just utterly stupid. Didn't expect more from you anyway.

continue via pm, it is wrong to derail someone's elses thread.

one of the quickest way to get banned, derail everyone's threads by insulting other members.

my apologies to the original poster of this thread; you should just avoid dating on the internet. unless you know this person already.

[naoki322]

i had to do it =X