Too fast for 2nd date?

[starbuck]

I know! This thread is adorable. Bump

[shh!]

I'd like to nominate debris for the "best date idea" award.

[debris]

Aww shucks, I do have to admit though...it's one of the better dates I've been on

Onwards to six flags finally! haha, think I'd call her tomorrow night

[Yacker]

You lucky man. Yeah it's good to see this kind of stuff around here.

[debris]

I just thought of a great idea for a subsequent date...

While we were walking yesterday on our date, she pointed out a couple who was rollerblading and said, "That looks like lots of fun." then we talked and I found out she never has/doesn't know how to rollerblade! (but she's been ice skating)

I'll see if theres any places by the beach that rents rollerblades out and I'll teach her.

[debris]

Quick question, which do you guys think is better? Going to six flags with just her or a double date with my coworker and his friend?

[lesa]

I really don't know. I like one-on-one for the first few dates .

[starbuck]

One-on-one. It's way more romantic.

[debris]

Thanks starbuck, lesa, and shh! you ladies have been quite helpful!

I'll call her tomorrow evening, she's at a bonfire right now.

[agatha]

Go with your plans while she says yes, Never mind your buddy, hes just too slow grabbing the opportunity.

[debris]

How did you guess that? I never mentioned that he hasn't found anybody to go with yet and I'm waiting for his confirmation, but I think I'll just leave him out and just go with her

[debris]

So I just called her a few min. ago and asked if she wanted to go this Friday but she said she couldn't because she was going to go to a friend's party (the occasion is it's his last few days before leaving for somewhere).

So I offered Thursday and she said she's not sure yet and will get back to me tomorrow or Tuesday, and we said goodnight and ended the call. (She's a pretty busy person, she had to get back to me too for the aquarium date, she didn't knew right then if she was available that Friday)

A few min. later I texted her saying, "instead of six flags this week, why don't you invite me to your friend's party I'd love to meet your friends" and she hasn't responded (although she's usually slow to respond to texts)

Was I dumb in doing this? .......doh.

[Jbleezyj]

Awesome I wish something like this happened to me. Everything seems to be going smoothly. Just go with the flow. Six flags should be fun, it will show your adventurous and fun side other than just typical dinners and a movie second date. Plus lots of opportunities to get close.

[Gribble]

That was dumb. Real dumb. If she wanted to invite you she would have. Now you're coming off as weird and clingy instead of romantic and sweet.

[misombra]

yeah debris. don't mess it up by being too pushy now...