General questions about dating/flirting

[Rosebud]

I do!! I like not being able to predict what the next move will be.. Element of Surprise!

[Fajemeister]

I do!! I like not being able to predict what the next move will be.. Element of Surprise!

What are some situations you've been in when a guy has acted like that? I'm just trying to get a good idea because i'm going to try and switch it up a little bit tomorrow at work with this girl.

[mini696]

Follow her lead, and copy.

[Fajemeister]

Follow her lead, and copy.

But the thing is that I'm trying to be the leader by throwing her off and being unpredictable.

[Fajemeister]

I just want to share something that happened yesterday. She called me out of nowhere, the first thing she says is "hey remember me" because we haven't seen/talked to eachother since saturday night. But it was a pointless convo cause she thought I called her and left a VM eventhough I didn't. Then later on she IM's me 2 different times pointlessly, i mean completley pointless, I know she did it just for attention but I acted like I couldn't talk because I was busy. The when I went to sleep I left my away message as...
"Sleeping. call the cell, mabey i'll answer if i like you enough "
Sooo about 45 min after i did that, she calls me and I purposly didn't answer my phone and she leaves me a message "Hi Mike this is Kelley, I guess since you didn't answer your phone you don't like me so I'm never talking to you again, K Bye." I know that she called just to see if I liked her enough to answer, not because she wanted to talk. I'm loving playing this hard to get thing. So how do you guys think I should act around her today at work?

[shh!]

Are you stupid or something? What the hell are you doing? How old are you?

[Junsui]

lol What shh! said. I wouldn't call that playing hard to get. You're giving her the impression you don't like her at all.

[Tone]

Are you stupid or something? What the hell are you doing? How old are you?

ahahaha I busted out laughin.

Funny stuff.

[Fajemeister]

I'm just doing what she does to me, you seriously have to know this girl to understand. Thats why I have no idea how to handle her because she is soo damn different from every other girl. It's like everything is in reverse. I love messing with her like this, the thing is that she acts even more flirty now.

[Junsui]

Yeah, I don't think I would want to get involved with someone who likes to play games THAT much.

[Rosebud]

Are you stupid or something? What the hell are you doing? How old are you?

LOL... that was funny!!!

Ok so seriously, that's not playing hard to get that's just giving her mixed signals.. And I'm not sure what kind of advice your looking for here because you will find that most of us on here don't play games like that and I know I wouldn't give you advice on how to confuse the hell out of someone!!!

[Fajemeister]

Well she's comming over tonight for a little bit after work. I had the idea of mabey going out to a cafe first to grab something then comming home. I want an honest opinion from a girl. I was thinking about playing guitar for her, since last time i talked to her about it she seemed interested that i played. Do you think that would come off as corny? Otherwise I could probably just put on a movie or something. The thing is, I don't know if she is planning on staying for a while, I have a feeling she's going to want to head home after a little bit just because she lives 40 minutes away and she has to be at work the next morning at 12. Anything you guys would recommend i do or talk about to keep her interested and basically make her want to stay?

[Tone]

OH MAN!! I had some GREAT, PERFECT advice for you man!!! Something that would work out perfect but....

I want an honest opinion from a girl.

*sigh* Oh well... I just wanted to help....

[Junsui]

She has to be at work the next morning at 12? I thought that was the afternoon lol.

[Fajemeister]

She has to be at work the next morning at 12? I thought that was the afternoon lol.

To her, thats like being at school at 7am. But yea, any advice is welcome, I was just wondering from a girls perspective, but Tone you are welcome to state your opinion.