impossible to make him change?

[misombra]

I agree with this post.

i agree too.

[boobaa]

wtf.. what do you guys judge a person's personality on? How can someone that stuck up, rude (I think it's very rude to put your girlfriend down about you making more money, having a better car, and claiming to be smarter than her), and self-centered be the "perfect guy"?

A girl, haha.

Igor is a guys name btw.

[MrDrum]

Violence doesn't solve anything =/

You misunderstand. I'm not literally saying im going to go beat him up.. im saying that sometimes there are people in the world that seem to have everything... they grow up with money, get into better schools, have parents that have stayed together, they get better jobs, make more money, etc. etc...

A lot of times, these people have little humility, have never known defeat (normally because they run from anything they cant win), and have never goten smacked around.

Sure violence isn't the answer... but getting a good butt wooping once or twice in your life, whether it is phyisical or mentally, is a good thing. It would smack some modesty into his stupid ass.

[whaywardj]

What you might have here, igor, is a latent (or actual) abuser. Displays a lot of contempt, but expresses little compassion. All you need to make that combination of traits explode into physical violence is just the right spark. He's already abusing you emotionally and masking it behind bragging...or, perhaps, masking it by trying to convince you he's just joking.

[lilwing89]

that only means 1 thing, u arent bragging enough!
brag up!
remind him how many guys you slept with in the past, thats an ouch to us guys...well i dont like it anyways..

[whaywardj]

Ouch! lilwing.

[BertIsMyHomeboy]

When he does this to you, is it just you two or are you with people?

[igor]

it's just us when he does it.

[Tone]

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[igor]

I think everyone has the impression that it's worse than it really is. He doesn't say that he's better than me or anything. He just keeps mentioning things that I already know and it sounds snobby. I just need to know why some guys do this and if they know they're doing it.

[Tone]

He always talks about how much money he makes and reminds me that I make less.

It's not only about the money either... His better car, him being smarter. stuff like that... It's just a bunch of subtle comments that make me feel like I'm not as good as he expects me to be

I think everyone has the impression that it's worse than it really is. He doesn't say that he's better than me or anything. He just keeps mentioning things that I already know and it sounds snobby. I just need to know why some guys do this and if they know they're doing it.

Wow make up your mind already. Make all the excuses you want, bottom line is he's a scumbag and he basically is trying to say he's better than you for constantly bragging about those things to you, HOW ELSE are you suppose to interpret that as? Think he's trying to tell you how equal you guys are when he's flaunting all his money, car, and brains at you, constantly?

You said you had the problem, we told you what was up, you didn't like it, so now you're changing your story and making excuses for your jerkoff boyfriend... Cool.

[lilwing89]

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