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Thread: Do you have to hate your ex to get over them?

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    I have also found that even though you may get really angry and "hate" your ex, it may seem like you are getting over him/her quickly. But once the anger subsides, you will still have the memories of the relationship and the breakup. And that might just extend the "getting over" process, thus doing the exact opposite of what you would want to happen.
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    I dont hate my exs, i learned all it does is make your a worse person. i did at 1st with my ex wife but now its fine. i have a ok whatever idea frame of mind now. took me along time to realize the engery i wasted being so mad just made me a mad person.

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    I don't hate any of my exes. In fact I'm "friends" with most of them on facebook. Or I guess I should say I'm indifferent to them. I don't hate them, I "nothing" them.

    As far as the three of the women that rocked my world and threw it off axis after we split, I just can't bring myself to be "friends" with them. I still love them to some degree and regardless of whatever transgression took place, I will continue to do so until I'm dust and soil.

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    I would say its the opposite really.. I hated my ex. I kept hating him for a year for a year after we split. When i was no longer angry at him for what he did i realised i had gotten over him and i just didnt care all that much anymore. So for me, when i stopped hating him i was over him. I think the anger you feel is the fact that you still love them and care and angry because you arent together and that the promises you made to each other were broken.
    I am going through a breakup/bad relationsip. And sometimes i hate him and feel angry, i know its because i still care about him in some f*cked up way.
    For the relationships that didnt work and i didnt really 'love' them. I didnt really feel all too much anger after their breakup at all. And now are just friends.
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