Rape fetish and the first time meet

[Doc Durian]

Lower Southern Hemisphere to the Upper Northern.

[doppelgaenger]

It cant be that expensive, unless you didn't look hard enough.

[Doc Durian]

It's between 3-4,000 USD (dependent on premium or economy) which for more than 24 hours of travelling time, I'd have to go prem. Plus transfers, car, hotel, etc.

[ecojeanne]

you could probably get a high class pro for that kinda money and she'll do wantever you want.....love you long time

[Doc Durian]

Like I said, Eco.... 50 decent lays or 20 high class, all up.

But I don't do pro's.

[misombra]

i'm reserving those things for when i'm many years into a relationship and regular sex isn't fun anymore.

[Illusional]

just get her consensual invitation taped, and then rape her on your first date. it's something that i would do, but then i've never had a girl tell me that she wanted to be in a rape fetish.

raverboy

[vashti]

She probably hasn't told you the OTHER part of her fantasy, which is where 3 big, buff guys catch you raping her, beat you up, cut off your balls, make you their bitch, and steal your money.

[Rollerderby]

(ie. A wannabe supermodel who couldn't stop picking her cocaine nose and hiding it in the ashtray. Now that was disgusting. I can honestly state that I've never done a narcotic aside from hospital pain killers and the night I walked out on her.)

LOFL

I mean.... that's a long way to go for some pseudo-forced pussy.

You know how to pick the winners Of course, I do recall a thread where you talked about a girl who you spanked b/c she threw a bowl of fruit at your head. I can see you being into it.

[Doc Durian]

Update: Contacted her and again expressed my reservations about the whole rape thing, but also the sex on a first date/meet thing. Which is almost equally foreign to me. She apologized sincerely for placing such expectations on me, and after a lengthy conversation we decided that it would be advantageous to continue as we are online and get to know each other a bit better.

I asked her "why" for the first time though. Why she has this fetish. She reckons it's got something to do with how she was brought up and how her mum and dad got on. A picture perfect couple who could turn on the drop of a dime and go ballistic on one another, but then make up like high school sweethearts an hour later.

The way she described them, it almost reminded me of my grandparents and how verbally indifferent they were to one another, but never more than an arms length from one another when home from work.

I guess I want to understand her better before rushing into anything, kosher or untraditional.

But she's rolling with it admirably, so it's all good.

Thanks for your opinions, and even your taunts.

[ecojeanne]

lol this thread was awesome!

[Doc Durian]

I'm glad that her and my life amuses you. I'd probably feel the same, if it weren't my life currently. lol

[tooxshort]

Doc, what's wrong with women that are within close proximity to you?

[Rollerderby]

Well at least she is showing signs of rationality and sanity. If she told you she was raped once upon a time, I would be really nervous.

Some people are just really freaky. Not a bad thing, as long as you're down. I think she probably just expected that since, you are coming all that way, you might expect booty. And she is probably thinking, well, if I'm gonna get international booty, I want it to be really effing good. You know? Had she not brought it up, you would have put some Barry Manalow on, sprinkled some rose petals and caressed her. And she would be thinking, wtf, Iknew I shoulda talked to him about this.

I mean, she's really just being logical because if you're going all that way, you guys would prob have sex. So it is pretty responsible for her to bring it up and get paperwork. But can you be a play-rapist doc? That is the question.

[Doc Durian]

Been going over it in my mind and I could probably consensually carry out her wishes bar one thing.

The dialogue.

What does one say in such situations, if anything?

I mean... I've watched enough movies to know that most probably, stupid cliches will come out my mouth.. ie "Stop squirming bitch, your booty is mine for the plundering"?

"You like that? Of course you do."

"You abort this and I'm coming back"

etc etc

That's just plain silly.

If it does eventuate somewhere down the distant road, I'm just going to wear a balaclava and say nothing.