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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II View Post
    It's not cheating but it'll cause you a major headache if you're stupid enough to say anything.
    This^. You man-ho, Grib. Good luck.

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    it's probably the closest time that you'll get to a threesome without any sex involved. this isn't cheating, BUT if my gf did this, then i'd be pissed.

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    you have a girlfriend? more than 2 weeks? wow.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    I'm not planning to say anything and she'll never find out on her own And Vash, you're right, she's way hotter than the other chick. That has nothing to do with it. I have her. The chase is over. What's the point now? If she weren't so obscenely hot and wickedly good in bed I'd have all ready dumped her. I'm itching to go out and pick up girls just for the thrill of it. Maybe I should keep pursuing other women, but only for cuddling. That way I get to revel in the chase and I have a girlfriend everyone else wants.

    Would I be upset if she cuddled with a half-naked guy? Hell, I wouldn't be upset if she had sex with some other guy. Just as long as she doesn't catch anything.
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    I'm not going to address whether or not it's cheating because I don't think you really care. And it's not like you're going to tell her, even if you should feel what you did is wrong.

    An answer is only important when you ask the right question.

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    i don't think it's dump worthy. but you'd definitely be going without that great sex for a while.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    The chase is over. What's the point now?.
    Maybe to protect your steady supply of sex?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Bah. A steady supply is pointless. Sex is boring when you can have it whenever you want it.
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    even so soon into a new relationship?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Well, no. It hasn't gotten boring yet. But it will.
    God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    Well, no. It hasn't gotten boring yet. But it will.
    With THAT girl? Maybe when she puts on 50 pounds and goes through menopause.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    Bah. A steady supply is pointless. Sex is boring when you can have it whenever you want it.
    Not as boring as it is when you *can't* have it when you want it in your relationship. To have sex whenever I want it: I can't think of anything more exciting.

    Screw the chase.

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    I'm going to have to revise my assessment of your intellect, Grib. Didn't you say this gal was a chemical eng student? So, not only is she beautiful and great in bed, but she can't be boring and she probably runs intellectual circles around you. This should be a real treat for you, unless she makes you insecure somehow. I didn't read that about you, tho I could be wrong.

    You sound like a girl, creating drama where there is no need for any.

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    You didn't cheat. But careful, that girl can create drama for you.
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    Man, I'd be really upset if I found out my guy was anticipating being bored with me, or was already bored despite how hot and amazing in bed he thinks I am. Yeah, relationships can be boring at times, and if you're not up for the work to make it not boring, then you should move on. There is nothing else about this woman that you like besides her bedroom skills and her looks? That's sad

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