i think people break up earlier cause f money issues then cause of cheating.
and when did you both think about marry?
now??
i think both of you want to do a lot of stuff in a record of time while both of you had
8 years doing what??
what about taking on step at the time instead f being busy with 10000 of unfinished stuff.
and often when the woman earn more money it can bring a lot of problem.
and its like the woman feel the need to adress that she earn more a lot of time.
while if its the men he just make it happen often without having to say much about it.
maybe you should think if you are okay with earning more or you need a men that earn more or the same.
and how important is money for you.
cause i feel like you are kind of more concern about money.
dont get me wrong its good and wise to plan your finance but i get another vibe also from you.
maybe you both to sit and have serious talk. and start making a plan on paper, how much of both money gos to the wedding
how much to the ring and how much for own pleasure and so on. and everyone have to put that amount on their own saving account every month.
you have to have serious talk as much as possible before marry. cause ones you are married you are already in it.
like will you take his dept on your shoulder or he will pay it alone?
and how serious a men is about marrying you depends also if it was you that asked him to marry you or
was it his own initiative.
but i think from what i see he just wanted to buy himself something nice.
just tell him how you feel and dont like itt and move on
dont make from a little thing a big issue.