I like what your saying.......Originally Posted by Hugo Pickle
Example....my ex.
He probably thought I was horrid. But it was because he didn't make a peep, wouldn't try any new positions, and was always saying how this and that were gross or whatever(oral sex, porn, anal sex). I tried oral on him ONCE, his reaction? 'do you like to do that or something?' so that discouraged me from ever trying it again. He only ever came if I was on top. and only a few times did we do it missionary.
So I was quiet and never attempted to get him to try new things..
NOW the new bf, is Awesome! He'll try anything, and he's very vocal and lets me know I"m doing the right thing....which in turn makes me just as adventurous and vocal.
The sex is now great.