Can you show too much feelings and distroy the challenge?

[Spellbound]

Hey Indi - I really didn't rescue her from anything. We started off as friends with no intention of building a relationship, but things clicked and we realized we were a lot alike, had the same feelings about things, had the same interests.Saw life in generally the same way. But that may be the problem too. They say opposites attract - we were opposite in a few ways ways, which we had other friends for those, but maybe we were just too much alike and the difference is needed to keep it interesting - I just don't know. I was happy with what we had, but I guess she was not

[Cain]

Hey Indi - I really didn't rescue her from anything. We started off as friends with no intention of building a relationship, but things clicked and we realized we were a lot alike, had the same feelings about things, had the same interests.Saw life in generally the same way. But that may be the problem too. They say opposites attract - we were opposite in a few ways ways, which we had other friends for those, but maybe we were just too much alike and the difference is needed to keep it interesting - I just don't know. I was happy with what we had, but I guess she was not

I don't quite buy into that opposites attract thing. I'm sure that some couples are composed of opposite personality types, but I'm learning that I'm more attracted to someone more like myself. I've lost interest with at least six different girls over the last three months because of that. But when I found someone that was much like me, attraction and chemistry hit instantly.

[IndiReloaded]

It was just a guess, for the reason I said. If not that, then I'm stumped except that gals usually decide a relationship is over waaay before they let their partner know. Hence your "WTF?". Sounds like this was the case, sorry.