My boyfriend and I used a dildo to get me used to his larger size. That and lube helped.
My boyfriend and I used a dildo to get me used to his larger size. That and lube helped.
Last edited by cathy22; 28-09-11 at 08:11 AM.
Try a router.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
once I've slept with a guy with such a large penis, and I'm quite "small". he was moving really slowly and carefully... finally it was the best sex I've ever had!! :-)
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
More foreplay, so you get really into it, and also try and work it in. Start with a dildo, and keep increases the size, you should eventually be able to take it. But definitely step up the foreplay
more foreplay helps a lot! experienced!
Sometimes it's just too big.
Try being on top where you can control how far and fast he enters you.
It might just be a nervous thing, like if your stressing too much about it that won't help. You need to relax during it so your muscles relax down there and your not all nervous and tensed up. That might be the only problem.
Don't use baby oil!!! Ouch... use KY jelly or proper lubricant or you could end up very irritated! A vagina "tents" when a woman is aroused. It will open up eventually. Just take it slow. I remember the man in my life that I came across and had this situation with... God I miss him!
Sometimes it's just too big.
KY is what we used
. Perhaps you could save sex for when you're super horny