Creepy?

[Indignant]

I've said this already. She doesn't have Facebook or MySpace or any of the online networks. The only way I've found to contact her is a phone number.

For those of you saying it's creepy, how about explaining how it's creepy so I can understand it.

please, there is nothing creepy about talking to a long lost friend.

[boobaa]

its creepy. A less creepy way might be something like facebook or friendster or some kind of network where its the norm to contact old friends.

People are always telling this and that is creepy. But WHY exactly is it creepy, how and what? What would you think? I amso one of those types who don't understand this stuff.



As for Cain. In my opinion, if you have the gus just tell her you found a yearbook and as looking it thought how everyone is doing so far.

[doppelgaenger]

In the old days, people had no fear, there were no creepy things, people fought bears.

Today, everything is creepy. We live in fear, can't do this, can't do that. We live in big cities but actually we are more distanced than ever. We are packed so together that everybody is forced to conseal themselves into those small private spaces. And everyone fears that someone might ruin his/her tranquilty or invade someones space.

We take taxies, ride bus, ride train, airplane, walk on the streets, bumping into each other, we should be close, right?

Yeah, we should be close.

[jockzon]

You should try to find her and say hi! It would be great! It might not be great, but, at least try. Try to find other "kids" from your class. I bet you can find her with a little effort. It's definitely not creepy, it's nice.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I'm trying to understand how it is creepy as well. I think it's a nice idea.

I say go for it.

[Cain]

Also, it's not like I hired a private investigator to find her. It actually only took me about two minutes to find her phone number (if this is actually hers).

I'm not going to be calling until Sunday evening. I don't want to call at an invasive time and I think that would be the best time.

[boobaa]

See, if you are honest, its not creepy at all

[Lipp]

As long as you tell her the story about finding the notes it should be perfectly fine.

If it was completely out of the blue she'd probably suspect something.

[Cain]

So, now that it's the day I said I was going to call I'm a little nervous. Just because it's been so long and I know it's going to be a little weird no matter what I say.

So, I'm going to be doing it in a bit. I don't want to call too late because I don't want to interrupt dinner.

[vashti]

Do it now. Quit procrastinating.

[1averagejoe]

Do it now. Quit procrastinating.

What she said...I'm curious what will happen.

[Cain]

So, I found the MySpace to someone that she was friends with back when we were talking. Should I skip calling and ask the girl about her? Or just forget that and go straight to calling?

[1averagejoe]

Stop beating around the bush and just do it...you sound like a high schooler scared to call a girl he likes.

[Cain]

Of course I'm nervous. I haven't spoken to her in 10 years.

Anyways, I called but there was no answer. I'm not really sure what to do now. She had no answering machine or voice mail set up apparently because it range eight times before I hung up.

When should I call again? Next weekend? :o

EDIT: And should I try to ask about her through that other girl now that I didn't get in contact?

[ecojeanne]

can you find her in myspace? or facebook, just add her there, to keep trying is a bit ott, its meant to be casual right?