So is that why you haven't worked, not so innocent ma?
Ignore the guy who does the same thing as your bf OP. Unless there is some amazingly redeemable quality about him, I agree with everyone else. Financial issues are one off the big factors that will break a relationship. Rather than have this guy stop you from being a kind and generous person, ditch him and move on.
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.
LOL, nice troll post. Men paid for women *they married*. "Wife" was a job, just like the man's. They were expected to run the household and raise children. There was a legal commitment on both parts.
This couple isn't married and they don't have kids. He can pay his share or GTFO.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Kind and generous is picking up the check at lunch or offering some gas money to a friend who picks you up to go somewhere, not supporting someone's ass, unless that is agreed upon, if you so decide to be the bread winner and they stay home to raise the kids and maintain the household. Other than that for get it. You got suckered.
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.
That's true, I forgot about the dowry.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
here come the bra burners, lol
if you all keep insulting the few male posters that dare to post here , all you will have left is females.......... and that cerby dude.
that cant be good for a forum about love. think on
Actually we have quite a few intelligent men on here that actually have real relationship experience and know how to look after their partners. And then we have little boys that admit to not wanting to grow up. In their mid twenties I might add.
As for being a bra burner, firstly bras cost way too much to throw on a fire. Secondly, personally I think feminism is no longer relevant and have always considered myself a humanist. Equal rights for.everyone regardless of gender, colour or sexual orientation.
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh