Booty calls - is ok for a woman to initiate

[BoredGeorge]

Just text him.

[Mia123]

Thankfully, I don't look my age. Not wishing to blow my own trumpet too much, I am pretty fit (cycle to work most days), with good skin, no stretch marks cos I ain't had kids, and am in proportion. I'd be a uk size 10 bottom, 12 top cos my boobs are DD/E cup.

Most people I meet guess my age from 36 - 38 and are surprised when I tell them I am actually 6wks off turning 41!! Its in the mind as well as the body I believe.

And yes, Primo is right, I am only after a FB, perhaps leading to a FBW. Def not a new Mr Mia. As an Aquarian I am fiercely independent, love my freedom and prefer living alone. I've done long term relationships 3 times and every time I've left because of feeling penned in after about 6yrs.

As for Pot Head, he has initiated most communication between us, I've just joined in the teasing txt games when he's been juiced up. It was fun.. which is what life is all about.

[Primo]

Sounds good Mia, you should be able to land a decent guy 30+ to take care of your needs. Maybe you're not looking hard enough? Try to avoid the Cheech 'n Chong types, all the cannabis has fried their sex drive. You're active and fit, you need an athletic guy that can make you still feel it the next day.

BTW, how many cats do you have?

[speakerspoke]

Is this thread title for real??

Girls have been doing this for since as long as quite awhile even!

Uncovered the shocking truth, drunken sluts sometimes make booty calls late at night!!!!

Say it ain't so!!! *gasp* Oh the horror!!!

[Mia123]

Slut I am most definately not! I have never made a booty call, drunk or otherwise. And if I did decide to make one in the future I am confident enough to make it without getting bladdered first.

Primo.. why the question about the cats? I'm intrigued? I "look after" one.. belongs to an ex who moved o'seas. The cat and I tolerate each other. I do have two little dogs, my best friends. And yes, you are right about the type of guy I need. I used to go to a gym but the guys there were so into themselves it wasn't funny.

One will come along when I least expect it. Until then there's always BOD!!

[Raze]

You need self-respect. Don't do it! Don't be a loser and do a bootycall. It's so distasteful. Find a hobby or something. I'm not sure what you meant by being bladdered first, but it doesn't sound good. I'm sure you have a lot of self-respect for yourself. Calling someone for booty will not make things better, trust me. I will compare it to getting hammered. You feel great at first, but then you get a hangover in the morning. It's the same with a bootycall. You feel great having sex with that person, but you will feel shameful afterwards. Anyway, it will feel better if you have sex with someone you actually care about and are in a relationship with, am I wrong?

To me, bootycalls are a part of a vicious cycle. You get lonely, you find a one night stand, you feel shame afterwards, you get lonely, you find a one night stand, you feel like shame afterwards.

I'm not sure why people on this forum are supporting one night stands, I'm confused. I thought we are supposed to be pro-love. Isn't love about forming relationships and being happy? At least, that's the end result that we all want, being happy.

Is this thread title for real??

Girls have been doing this for since as long as quite awhile even!

Uncovered the shocking truth, drunken sluts sometimes make booty calls late at night!!!!

Say it ain't so!!! *gasp* Oh the horror!!!

I have zero respect for women like that.

heck yeah!!! guys dont back down on this stuff. and if he does then his stupid.

Is this guy for real? I say no to one night stands. I must be the number one idiot. Oh, no, I don't have sex with slutty women, darn I'm so stupid. Thanks for giving guys a bad name.

lol, in my book if he backs down he is "GAY"

I don't even know where to begin with this one. I'm guessing your book is not a number one seller.

[speakerspoke]

So Raze has no respect for drunken sluts? Wow, way to make a brave stand there! lmao!!

What next? A courageous diatribe on how you hate aids and everyone else should to not because it's aids or them having their own opinions that they formed on their own, but simply because you do? lmao

Stay tuned for more boorish posturing by Raze as he wow's the audience with his encyclopedic knowledge on anal warts and how he over came his infinite shame by almost fessing up to the doctors questions on how he got them, during a routine check up. lmao

[speakerspoke]

Oh and will some one educate this Raze fellow that actual "drunken sluts" don't respect themselves, which is the real problem rather than Raze's narrow minded opinion of them.

Who ever "them" is....lol

[Raze]

So Raze has no respect for drunken sluts? Wow, way to make a brave stand there! lmao!!

What next? A courageous diatribe on how you hate aids and everyone else should to not because it's aids or them having their own opinions that they formed on their own, but simply because you do? lmao

Stay tuned for more boorish posturing by Raze as he wow's the audience with his encyclopedic knowledge on anal warts and how he over came his infinite shame by almost fessing up to the doctors questions on how he got them, during a routine check up. lmao

I have no problem with drunk people as long as they don't get billigerent. Correct, I have no respect for sluts. You can be drunk and not be a slut. I'm not making a brave stand I'm voicing an opinion because I actually support relationships.

As for the second part, I have no idea what you are trying to say. Please, read what I write before you quote me.

Oh and will some one educate this Raze fellow that actual "drunken sluts" don't respect themselves, which is the real problem rather than Raze's narrow minded opinion of them.

Who ever "them" is....lol

If you make a bootycall, you are at the end of the totempole. That's all there is to it.

I'm all for partying and going wild, but you can have a good time without making a bootycall.

It's not a narrowminded opinion, if you make a bootycall you are desperate. Why not have a relationship and then have great sex? Please read the posts regarding regrets after bootycalls/one-night stands and you will understand what I've been saying.

[speakerspoke]

So your thinking in total absolutes is not a narrow minded opinion? lmao

I have about as much interest in "debating" you Homer as I have in watching the Bill O'Reily Factory. lmao

Welcome to the no spin zone, you're a douche bag, congratulations! lmao

[Raze]

So your thinking in total absolutes is not a narrow minded opinion? lmao

I have about as much interest in "debating" you Homer as I have in watching the Bill O'Reily Factory. lmao

Welcome to the no spin zone, you're a douche bag, congratulations! lmao

Oh fk, here we go again...

Stop being a troll

[Gigabitch]

I have never made a booty call, drunk or otherwise.

Um, Mia. Here's the thing. FWB, NSA, FF, whatever- they're ALL a booty call. It's casual sex without emotional or social attachment. That's what a booty call IS.

Oh fk, here we go again...

Stop being a troll

There are bigger trolls under the LF bridge, believe me.

[pinkscorpion]

It's totally okay for a woman to initiate a booty call as long as she has NO higher expectations and as long as she's doing it for the right reasons, i.e: wanting sex REALLY badly. So I say go for it Mia.

[SirWagginston]

All this talk of self-respect is ridiculous. Guys like to feel sexy and wanted, too. I hate women who think men have to initiate all the time. Are you girls adults or children? I want to be your partner, not your babysitter. If you're going to expect men to do all the work, I think we should take away your right to vote. If anything, I respect girls with initiative even more.

[phys251]

All this talk of self-respect is ridiculous. Guys like to feel sexy and wanted, too. I hate women who think men have to initiate all the time. Are you girls adults or children? I want to be your partner, not your babysitter. If you're going to expect men to do all the work, I think we should take away your right to vote. If anything, I respect girls with initiative even more.

Whoa, easy there, dude. Yes I agree that women should take the initiative more, but even with the crazy system of dating we have now, it's not like we do *all* the work. And even if we did, it's no reason to deny women's suffrage!