Should i fight for it?

[Scarlet_P]

Tell her in a dramatic and husky voice, like Han Solo with Princess Leia, "I'll wait for you".

Or not.. Perhaps she's opening up now about her feelings because of Africa, and wants to know there's something to come back to? It'll give you time apart to think about each other which will hopefully make the heart fonder for both of you. I would see her up until she goes, and do what comes naturally. If you're feeling the feeling, it's right.

[asciadez]

Thanks again. I'll take your advice - though i'm not happy with the situation, i can see the point you're making. So i won't push it, if it is supposed to happen it will and then i'll just have to wait for it. :-)

HeartIsAching: Actually, their advice went more in the opposite direction - like "Dude, you should totally nail her" and stuff like that. So yeah, probably i was sparse with the details, but still i didn't count on much valuable advice from them, they're... somewhere else... ;-)

Thanks again everyone!