Do women get sexual desire?

[Tanguerra]

Yes. Of course. Women are more socialised to disguise it though and depending on how they're brought up and their culture they might be more or less likely to talk about it or act on it. Women like to look at erotic art and such like and will get 'aroused' by it if they're relaxed about that sort of thing. Women will use 'fantasy' to arouse themselves, which is why romantic novels are so popular. Once or twice I've dreamt I was making love with Brad Pitt and woken up 'all in a lather' (lucky me).

Women's sexual organs swell when they're aroused exactly the way men's do, but ours are a different shape of course, so it's not so 'obvious' as a man's. I'd definitely encourage you to do some googling about the actual mechanics (no, that doesn't mean watching porn - that will give you a totally unrealistic view of things).

[xiaokanla]

Or did Canada prohibit that too?

[Kaius]

when my fiancee gets the urges, she wakes me up in the middle of the night, or just walks around the house naked (when kids are asleep).
Sometimes she would just pull down my shorts while I'm doing something (like brushing my teeth), and my cock would be in her mouth.
Yes, I would say women have huge sexual desires, but maybe not as frequently as men.

[JadenMia]

Yes we definitely do. I am always aroused it seems, and the more i have sex, the more i think about it and the worse it gets. I can look at a couple kissing or touching and instantly think of sex. Its sometimes a pain in the ass!!
With all my exes i have been the more sexual one. My first boyfriend would actually turn me down on a night.. My last boyfriend and I, used to have sex at least twice a day, everyday right up until we broke up. Since that relationship i get more urges than i ever did.. My new boyfriend seems to be on the same page though.. Which is nice

I do worry about it though, womens sexual urges are supposed to be at its peak around the age of 30.. What in the world am i going to do then!? i dont know.. LOL

[bulrush]

darn, can't tell if a girl finds me sexually attractive then.

Not true. When a girl gets very turned on, her cheeks and neck turn reddish. That's how you tell if they are faking an orgasm or not.

[smackie9]

Look at the eyes....when someone is very sexually aroused their pupils are dilated.

[JohnDater]

Uh yea, woman have a fast on/off switch... it can turn on real fast and they want you bad... but it can turn off even faster, lol

[Twiz]

... I do worry about it though, womens sexual urges are supposed to be at its peak around the age of 30.. What in the world am i going to do then!? i dont know.. LOL

I always wonder/worry the same thing. Sometimes I feel as if I want to more than my boyfriend or as if I think about it way too much. But I can't help it. I'm not ashamed of it. I wish my boyfriend were able to keep up sometimes though (sometimes once is enough for him and for me it's usually twice or more). But we manage and for the most part my boyfriend and I are on the same page and are able to last/go for a while so for the most part my desires/urges are satisfied. But on nights we can't go twice after the first time I usually get a killer urge to again at some point that day/night so I will literally have to excuse myself or go somewhere to address it.

But yes, women do. For me it's usually seeing something graphic or thinking about something sexual like remembering a specific time where sex was really hot, or thinking about what sex would be like next time it happens.

[Kiechi]

In other words = Vashti is definitely thinking about sex.

[searock]

Not true. When a girl gets very turned on, her cheeks and neck turn reddish. That's how you tell if they are faking an orgasm or not.

A girl can be aroused but still not have an orgasm (and eventually fake one) though. So I'm not sure that's a valid method actually.

[Benni]

Lots of women in their 30s through 50s aren't too pleased with their husband's lack of drive, and believe me: the women ARE thinking about sex.

I'm 56 and I've thought about/wanted/needed sex more in the past year than I have my entire adult life!

[Love'sReject]

Yeah, I won't lie: My sex education growing up was pretty skewed (happens when "Married...with Children" is one and a main resource).

Thanks to lack of personal experience and the media, I always thought women hated sex and only did it out of marital obligation. I didn't even know women got horny. The point is, not everybody gets access to informative sex ed.

[searock]

Thanks to lack of personal experience and the media, I always thought women hated sex and only did it out of marital obligation. I didn't even know women got horny. The point is, not everybody gets access to informative sex ed.

What?! How about the internet?? Or female teen magazines (boys in my class in middle school used to buy those sometimes to get info about female sexuality)? Or your friends? :S

[MaidenMinx]

I do worry about it though, womens sexual urges are supposed to be at its peak around the age of 30.. What in the world am i going to do then!? i dont know.. LOL

I heard it was 40... and I bloody well hope so! If this is my peak, everyone please feel sorry for my husband. :/

In my 20's I was much more toey (I hate the term horny for women, we lack the horns with which to be horny).
Though there are some nights I wake up feeling absolutely insatiable. Hubby likes those nights.

[Love'sReject]

What?! How about the internet?? Or female teen magazines (boys in my class in middle school used to buy those sometimes to get info about female sexuality)? Or your friends? :S

Haha, didn't have many friends growing up, and besides, us guys are BS'ers anyway.

I didn't really begin using the internet until I was about 13, and it didn't occur to me to learn things on the internet (I played online games that racked up the phone bill; yup, good old dial-up for the longest time).

Was far too scared to be seen in the possession of one for a while.