Originally Posted by
mousey
I need a man's advice here. Or at least, I need to type it all out, and straighten it in my head. I met my fella three months ago, and everything was just right. At first I didn't 'fancy' him, but loved his playful nature, his humour, and his flattery I guess. We went out several times, and I did end up fancying him. From there, it was all going marvellously. He began to stay at mine every night, even though he has kept his digs on. A couple of weeks ago we went to see one of his friends, this sounds daft, but for someone who claimed to love me so much, his body language was wrong. He angled himself toward his friend, and I felt like an outsider. The following day there was a bit of a argument over this friend not wanting me to be at a sports event. Although my fella ended up not going, I didn't felt that he supported me either. All petty stuff I know. That day though, I did have a little cry - which I am mad at myself for, I'm not a crying type person. I think this may have made him feel I am weak.
After that, I think things between us have changed slightly. I've seen a coldness in his eyes at times, times before this too. I might be imagining it. Also, although he always has really negative things to say about women. His poor disabled mum cooked him a meal, and he text me complaining how crap it was. He can't stand his sister. Finally, he told me that he told someone at work not to worry about what a woman had said to him, they were all the same. I'm wondering now if I am in a relationship with a misogynist. How can I really test if he is a woman hater? I'm not sure if I am allowed to post sexual things on here, but he wants to do some stuff that I agree to, and didn't think was degrading, but if the underlying aspect IS that he is a woman hater, then that makes me feel very uncomfortable.
I know relationships change early on, and that the attentiveness rarely lasts, oh god I just don't know what to do.