Will she after she comes to America?

[Gigabitch]

Yup. One of the Russian women I know moved here nine years ago to marry this old guy- but he's a really cool old guy, and they're still together. They have a lot in common and a good life together.

I applaud anyone who helps women get out of Russia. That place can be a living Hell.

[Gigabitch]

American chicks need to go and have a good hard look at themselves. Well the ones from San Diego do anyway.

Heh heh. The boys from San Diego are pretty good, though. That's where my bf is from, and he's wonderful.

[MVPlaya]

Hi there

I'm on my mid-forties, I had not been lucky when it comes to relationships, it's not that I’m some repressed middle-aged who's never been on a relationship in the past, don't get me wrong. In fact, I have been on a couple of healthy relationships before, but for some reason they never worked out.
For quite a while, after breaking up with my former girl, I know it sounds corny, but I started to lose faith in love because I really thought she was the one. So, as a way of relaxing and having a good time, this friend of mine advised me to take one of these tours to Russia you know the ones that are popular these days, because he said I’d meet beautiful women. At first, I gotta say, I had my doubts, but after thinking it over, I finally made up my mind. Therefore, with nothing to lose (except for a couple of bucks), I went on the tour, and indeed I met this death-gorgeous, smart and sincere gal, we just simply clicked after meeting each other, we had the best time together while I was in Russia, and ever since I came back to the states we kept in touch almost every day by phone, chat, and e-mails,. I know it's hard to have long distance relationship, but she’s definitely worth it, plus I go to Russia every time I can.
I am very serious with her, we’re on a one-year relationship now, we have talked about her moving to the states and she’s ok with it.
Lately, I have started to think about popping the question once she moves in, of course she doesn’t know about it.
So here are my concerns:
Do you think I am rushing into things? Or should I just go for it and propose?
Do you think it will work? You know, me being American and her being Russian? Or is it that you think she will have a hard time adapting to America and she’ll just feel like going back to Russia.


Any piece of advice would be very appreciated

Honestly, your situation is pretty unique. I'd be hesitant to take any advice on this thread as cannon, but just to make a more general observation. The girl has more to lose from this situation than you do, which means if she takes the step it showcases her sincerity, and if things aren't looking perfect she has more of an incentive to work for the relationship. You honestly can't expect anything to go perfect in life, but if someone is willing to take that leap with you, you will at the very least have some great memories.

As for cultural differences, if she's from any of the more metropolitan/european areas in Russia, she won't have any major cultural issues moving to the United States. I'm guessing from the fact that you guys have a relationship that shes fluent in English. So she should be fine integrating into American society.

Honestly, don't take any advice as golden, mine included. As for propose, that completely depends on your relationship with her. We have no idea man. Thats a mystery in life thats all yours to explore.