B/c for ppl like Buddhist monks, this IS something they achieve. Or say they do. Sex is described as an attachment. They claim its possible to become detached from this need thru things like meditation.
Personally, I like sex. Its a good stress relief & its fun. I think the troubles for ppl start when they take it too damn seriously.
And who wants to walk around with a shaved head & wearing an orange blanket, anyway?