God this is embarrassing.

[K3vMySt3r]

<all hail PKsEvolution> nice

[Only-virgins]

I'm sure there have been several thousand more embarrassing topics on these forums, but as far as I'm concerned, this is an embarrassing thing to write.

I've known this girl for four years, and we've been great friends for about a year.(Check out my profile for the pre-now situation in more detail). I asked her out last tuesday, but we don't umm... do anything. It seems like we're still "just friends".

I've lost a g/f before because of this. Going out, wasn't much point in going out because we were both shy and it didn't feel right.

I really want to get close to this girl; she means a lot to me. So many things conflicting in my mind at the moment. Surely if she's going out with me, she wants to get a bit close... Surely as the bloke I should be the one... starting if you know what I mean.

This all makes sense, but we're both really really shy and have never had this sort of relationship before. I can tell it's what we both want, but just don't know how to go about you know... the whole touchy thing.

Would mentioning it in a text be a good idea? Talking about it? Going straight in there?

Any thoughts/comments greatly appreciated.

Yea right... you just want to have sex with her you scum-bag..come forward with the truth!

[KaWaiiSkYe]

Oh don't be so harsh, he might do, he might not.

[jimbob]

Yea right... you just want to have sex with her you scum-bag..come forward with the truth!

Oooh, scathing! Does it sound like I "just want to have sex with her" from my post? I'll correct you there. I just want to do what normal couples do. And at the moment, nah I'm not bothered about sex. But a hug every now and then would be nice...

Lol.