Originally Posted by
NeverDated
I'm not complaining. I'm just curious.
I have friends who are constantly asked for their numbers. Not in lore, in actuality.
So...general consensus is to balls up and start asking. Will do. I'm not afraid of rejection, I just don't want to be the one who gets the "oh, you misunderstood" line. Not a self-esteem hit, just kind of embarrassing. I can deal with someone not being interested, but I have a bit of a hard time feeling like a fool.
Well, no one is perfect and we all make mistakes sometimes. Just create a joke out of it if you can.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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