For the record I have never once made that association. Though it is very obvious if he can move his hips like a pro salsa dancer there is not a way in hell he's a shitty lover.
Because sometimes it's damn hot to have a tease session and to make yourself or your partner orgasm with alternate methods.. you know like keeping things fresh?
LOL... for one, good sex has a lot MORE to it than moving your hips! I move my hips amazingly... but that isn't why I consider myself amazing in bed... Sure I can pound away on my girl for 30minutes with a nice rythm in my hips... I pride myself on being able to last a long time... but that isn't what makes me good in bed... what makes me good in bed is I am very giving. I do anything that pleases her. I lick her pussy and ass for a long time before and after. I finger her or use toys on her before, after, during. We try new things often, etc, etc, etc... that is what makes someone good in bed.. Sure they have to move, but if that is all they can do, then that sucks...
Oh, and by the way, my girl is a great dancer, she loves dancing... she isn't the best 'mover' in bed. For any good rythm I have to be on top and in control, she isn't good at bouncing on a penis at all, but she is an amazing dancer!
I think you forgot to read what I really wrote. I never said non dancers were bad in bed. I said if he's as good as those salsa men out there, he ain't bad in bed. There is a huge difference in what I wrote and what you inferred I wrote.
I said I hope. I know I am getting married, I have no interest in any other girl but the one I am with.
I dance between the sheets and in the shower... sometimes they're one in the same.
Dance floor dancing.... pfft, never really got into it but I do if I must and I've got no latino rhythm so to speak.
(Too many mosh pits and grunge clubs damaged my public sensitive side)