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Thread: I'M BACK! Help me analyze my love situation

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    I feel so dumb!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by windycity View Post
    THANK YOU for all those who'll take the time to read this. This was my original posting 2 weeks ago. "I gave my crush a gift and a letter explaining what I feel towards him. He has no clue who I was. On my letter to him, I gave him my email address. The same day I got an email from him and he was very thankful for the gift and he said he was very curious to find out who I am. So I replied and gave him a hint. He had emailed me back a couple of times and he did not make any comment about the hint I gave him. So I asked him twice, have you figured out yet who I am, and still he didn’t make a comment. It’s as if he skipped that part but answered all of my other questions. He sounded friendly and he even said, enjoy your vacation..be safe there..you have a happy new year! Another email he sent, he said, I’d love to join you for dinner!!! If anything to prove I’m not married! I wonder why he ignored the hint. Please someone help me analyze!! I'm going nuts!"
    Everyone here at the forum adviced me to reveal myself and I did just that. But before I plunged into it; I decided to check his myspace and found out that he likes Asian girls (I'm of Asian descent) so armed with that information, I sent him the email reveling myself, he replied and he's email sounded excited he even invited me to join myspace and to download IM. He said on his email "I'm looking forward to talking to you". As we were talking I kind of felt that our conversation was just all about him; he never asked anything about me. I really felt something is odd. He never asked me the typical questions that a guy would ask if he's interested in a girl. Last night came the shocker, since I wanted to know if he likes me or not, I started gearing our conversation towards that. At first he was trying to avoid that question and he just said, "well all my relationships in the past were based on lust; I kinda wanted to do it differently this time". I told him "I agree, same here". We talked for hours. I asked him, are you attracted to me? and he said yes, because I've never had an admirer who pursued me like the way you did. I read your letter everyday and the scent from the envelope is stuck in my brain since the day I got it. I'm sorry if I don't seem to be interested. We can go out only if you can forget the current feelings you have; it's usually hard to pretend that you don't like the person. But if you think you can handle that then we can go have dinner somewhere! . I was so hurt that I just said "bye I'm signing out now." After a few minutes, I went back online again to check if he's still there but he was already offline but he did leave me a message: "Will you still talk to me when I see you on Monday at school?" and I replied
    "absolutely yes, we can still talk. let bygones be bygones. I have only myself to blame and it's not the end of the world. I'm cancelling the myspace acct. so no more IM. It was a good learning experience, I'll never forget. I think that letter was the cutest thing I've ever done for a guy. I'm just fine! I'm smiling right now just thinking about you. You have to see the other side of me.". THIS MORNING, I WOKE UP AND CHECKED MY EMAIL, HE EMAILED ME AND GAVE ME HIS CELL PHONE NO.
    CAN SOMEONE ANALYZE WHAT IS HE UP TO? The thing that puzzled me was " he wanted to know if I will still talk to him; and now he gave me his cell phone no. I'LL APPRECIATE ALL YOUR ADVICE AND THANK YOU FOR READING.

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    He probably wants to get to know you. He is intrigued by your interest with him. Play it cool and see if he still pursues you. Just be careful. Just because he seems interested does not mean he has changed his mind.
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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