My boyfriend won't stop watching porn

[dickriculous]

If I truly am good enough, he shouldn't need that kind of stuff.

Well at least you admit that this is all about your ego, a lot of people aren't that honest.

Also, you can't change who someone is in order to fit your ideal...this almost never works out favorably, not in the long run at least. If he tried to beat something you greatly enjoy out of you then at best you would try (and fail in the long run) to force yourself to change for him until you burn out and the real you takes over anyway, taking you right back to the beginning of the shit storm all over again. At worst you would get into a fight about it right then and there and who knows where that would lead?

If you're not okay with a quality someone has you can't hook up with that person and try to beat that quality out of them. You have to take it or leave it. You may not want to accept that but life isn't going to give you much of a choice.

[dem862]

We don't have sex as much as he watches porn, but I'm okay with the amount of times we have sex every week. We have sex everytime we feel like it and he says he's satisfied too. The thing is, I don't like the fact he watches other girls to stimulate him. If I truly am good enough, he shouldn't need that kind of stuff.

If you're okay with the amount of times you have sex every week, then leave him alone. It isn't affecting you! On the other hand, you put him in the position of having to sacrifice something he enjoys and is otherwise available in unlimited supply. He is going to start resenting you for this, or he will start lying or covering up what he is doing. You have put him in a bad position because you think it has something to do with you being good enough. If you feel you aren't good enough, then do something to improve yourself. Don't try to curtail his enjoyment of life, so you can feel better about yourself.

[KingZ]

Guys, she stopped responding. Drop it.

I looked into this user. Seems like she has some major problems of her own. Can't keep her hands off other men, so she's afraid her boyfriend is going to go out and behave the same way she does.

https://www.loveforum.net/threads/84384-I-made-a-mistake
https://www.loveforum.net/threads/84350-He-s-been-ignoring-my-texts-messages

At least she's able to recognize that she's insane:

https://www.loveforum.net/threads/85260-Overly-jealous-girlfriend

She must be really hot for her boyfriend to put up with this.

[Wakeup]

She must be really hot for her boyfriend to put up with this.

Or her boyfriend is a codependent twit who is too afraid to be alone so he tolerates her crap?????

[Jennicus]

I'm having a similar issue to this, regardless of what discoveries you've found about the original poster and her beau. My partner is watching a lot of porn, more than we have sex when it used to be the other way round. There's been a lot of stuff happen in the last year and I'm trying to suggest stuff (watching it together, making our own so when he watches it's us not some randomers) to boost our sex life but he doesn't seem interested. I'm not a fool, I know it's pretty much hardwired into most men to watch porn and I watch from time to time, but is it so wrong to want to be his primary source of sexual satisfaction?

[smackie9]

Funny .... I usually will find them on another site posting the exact thread, then I bust their ass lol.