Thanks sooo much u guys! Its reassuring to hear people who have experience with this, and more experience with relationships all together. I will try and plan more things with just her...but she doesn't realize how hard this is! School is absolutely overwhelming, and my boy friend already thinks that I actually spend more alone time with her than him. (can't please them all, I guess). I plan a lot of things with everybody, but as soon as I even sit next to him, she ditches us and leaves, claiming she feels like a third wheel when both of us try and include her.
I will probably try and wait it out. It just seems like there's never a time when everybody can actually be happy with me! Either way I do something, someone gets mad. I do wish that she could get into a relationship, I would feel bad saying that to her that she should wait and judge until she gets into a relationship before accusing me of anything. But oh well.
Again, THANKS a BUNCH you guys! I'm so surprised at the number of open people that are willing to help and give advice here.