dating a prostitute

[fooley]

Thank you all for your responses.
I just found out that drugs are also involved in her case.
It makes my problem more complex and challenging.
I couldn’t help her without your support.
Thanks again.

[music_jim]

Thank you all for your responses.
I just found out that drugs are also involved in her case.
It makes my problem more complex and challenging.
I couldn’t help her without your support.
Thanks again.

Help her? We're trying to help you. Run while you can, squirrel.

[RoxyFoxy]

I've herd of the rule of hypergyny, but this is really pushing it to its limits.

[glitterbeachie]

sounds like you have wounded bird syndrome...where one finds an emotionally/physically needy person and feels the need to rescue them like a wounded bird pretty noble

[Mish]

As everyone has already mentioned. If you want to avoid future problems, you should avoid this relationship. Trust me, when so many people are giving you exactly the same advice, it could be because the situation is obvious, they have experience of similar situations and they know what it's like...

[Gigabitch]

sounds like you have wounded bird syndrome...where one finds an emotionally/physically needy person and feels the need to rescue them like a wounded bird pretty noble

Exactly. My brother has this. It comes from growing up in an unstable home. He has dated the most sorry parade of losers you could imagine. He is now married to a compulsive liar (which makes family barbeques hella entertaining for the rest of us). The sad thing is, they have a kid, and the kid is a little stressmobile because her mama's crazy.

Are you coming from an unstable home? Do you have major issues? I think you should address these things, whether you help this girl or not, because you owe it to yourself and your future self.

[King Zarathu]

He is now married to a compulsive liar (which makes family barbeques hella entertaining for the rest of us).

That's hilarious. I know some kids that are like that and it's pretty funny. This one kid tried to pass off that he could speak French. Funny thing is, he didn't know the kid he was talking to was fluent ^_^ and I busted his ass. I still harass him about that, but I don't really see him anymore--it's good to avoid those people.

[Tone]

Just cause she dance the go-go, it don't make her a ho, no!

[TravelingMan]

I wanted to thank you on the note you wrote above. I think you were dead on correct. I am in a current situation quite similar (with a prostitute) and searching for some sensibility in where i am taking this. I have thought so much about my situation, but reading your post below has really helped me a lot.

I wish you are still checking messages to know you have help someone. Now, i can only pray i get out of this one in one-piece!

[TravelingMan]

About my note below. I was thanking MUSIC_JIM!

[VincenzoG91]

I tried to PM the OP, but I can't tell if it went, because it isn't in my sent folder.

Anyway, I have been there and done that. My relationship with a pretty call girl who had a meth addiction was a huge mistake. The jealousy was painful, especially the one time that I drove her to a call. She kept stealing from me and then I kept forgiving her and taking her back after she did a little rehab. I hung in there way too long because her young kids were really nice and deserved a better life. I wish I could have those lost years back.

[QuietLady]

Run away. You can't save someone from themselves. Women don't go into the sex trade (whichever the occupation) because they are healthily grown women. They are messed up and that's okay to walk away. Healthy people fix themselves before they let anyone else fix them or get involved in any relationship.

[Kama]

In fact it is really a different experience to be with a prostitute and love her. You do not seem to belonging to the mold the rest of us do. Of course you can partner up with her and transform her. Few become prostitutes out of choice and in fact there are certain circumstances that make people incapable of being rational and people even lose their common sense and fall victim to the circumstances they are hemmed in. All you have to do is change her and you must try little by little and you will see something blazing within her too and she will emerge as a loving and caring lady for you and who will very passionately love you once you win over her through love and kindness

[warriormaiden]

Run like the wind.

If you start a relationship it's just going to be one long battle from there on out.

[Mish]

This thread goes back to 2006, no need to reply anymore