i also agree with tones post . But what about what you do when your IN love ? do you think there's a difference of your choice of action when you love someone and that your IN love with someone ?
example: if i love someone , i will try to be nice , make them happy but i believe that once something goes wrong many times , you might "love" them less and eventually will not be loving them anymore
while being IN love is doing something like driving 45 mins just to see your loved one for 15 mins ... and you will take shit from them and even if they sometimes screw up , you ll still forgive them and love them back ... to some point of course ... cant have em stabbing you and loving them after .