Originally Posted by
GrkScorp
Absolutely..
These aren't lines for you to memorize.. just concepts and speech patterns.. In the bad examples.. as a guy, you lack assertiveness.. you're basically asking for permission.. and that's unattractive.. In the good examples.. you're assertive, strong, powerful, in control, and taking the lead.. "sweeping her off her feet" if you will.. Making it easy for her to just give in to the urge to surrender completely to that masculine energy of yours, that overwhelming force.. (all women find this sexy, but girls like her who are biased towards "attraction" find this especially arousing on a much deeper level).. so just let this part of you come out..
The basics of this dynamic is when you lead you encourage compliance. A ship can only have one captain. The one who picks the role of the leader automatically puts the other into the submissive role. It's almost expected. So don't be uncomfortable in this role. This is actually what you want.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~