I want to ask her over but I'm embaressed about my home? Adice please!!

[Roqua_99]

I would ask her out to a public place. If I really liked someone and I was a male I would be creative and find some special places to take her. And soon when my funds were right I would move

into a apartment.

Well, considering I'm 16, i really cant do much about my home environment as such. But, in 5 months, I'll be enlisting for the Army, so i'll be out of this god-forsaken hell hole. Anyway, back on topic.

my question is, what would be a to approach asking her out? At school? If so, how would I do it? what do I say, I've never done this before in my life. Talking to girls, I can do it, but I'm not the greatest at it.

[doppelgaenger]

I wouldn't take her home so soon. Let her get to know you and make a first impression before you introduce her to the problems in your life.

And I recently introduced my GF to my family, which was really tough, because I'm not very proud of it. I basically told everyone that shit better be tip top while my GF is around or there will be hell to pay. Things went pretty smoothly... it's just that my family follows me around like bad weather and it's especially embarrassing because my GF comes from a pretty well-off family. Eventually she will know all the details about my miserable past... it's just important for your SO to realize that you're different and all... most people would accept those circumstances because we are not responsible for our family.

[Roqua_99]

I wouldn't take her home so soon. Let her get to know you and make a first impression before you introduce her to the problems in your life.

And I recently introduced my GF to my family, which was really tough, because I'm not very proud of it. I basically told everyone that shit better be tip top while my GF is around or there will be hell to pay. Things went pretty smoothly... it's just that my family follows me around like bad weather and it's especially embarrassing because my GF comes from a pretty well-off family. Eventually she will know all the details about my miserable past... it's just important for your SO to realize that you're different and all... most people would accept those circumstances because we are not responsible for our family.

Basically, what I'm going through. I'm just still totally confused as to how I would approach asking her out, as I stated above. I'm clueless about asking girls out, I've never done it before.