Good Guy...Turned Bad?

[WonderMan]

Oh.. I get it LOL

[Jason86]

Ouh shit. Unfortnunatly I'm a good guy too, but after reading this I decided that I need to stop being a good guy, which I can't..

Tell me what exactly you did to turn "bad"
I'll just try it, for few weeks like you.. It will probably be really hard, but yah I must..

Wow, I never thought it would be a day that someone would ask me that...lol? But I just stop being nice, stop going out my way....in any form. Small talked, not giving them a chance to reply, telling them I'm busy, didn't pick up when they called, didn't reply to texts. Looked at other women; commented on how the other women were hotter and I would get with them. Demanded that they buy me lunch at work, cracking jokes about their weight, teasing them and the most important....I used the word NO...more than I ever have in my life.

Not that I will continue to use these tactics, it’s just like one poster said, keep it as a safe guard, until I know the girl.

[BillyGalbreath]

Well, Jason. You didn't describe a jerk there. You described the typical man.

I just stop being nice, stop going out my way....in any form.

This shows that you actually have a backbone. You can stand your ground and wont bend to her, or anyone else for that matter.

Small talked

This is one of the most important things. No one likes the shy guy that doesn't talk.

not giving them a chance to reply

This is a bit rude, if you ask me. Conversations have to go two ways. Be careful not to keep them out of the conversation too much as women feel their words are important too.

telling them I'm busy, didn't pick up when they called, didn't reply to texts

This shows that you have a life that doesnt revolve around them. No one likes to be smothered.

Looked at other women; commented on how the other women were hotter and I would get with them

This is quite effective, at first, but quickly turns sour when abused. I advise you to stop this behavior but if you insist then please be cautious.

Demanded that they buy me lunch at work

Ding ding ding. I still havent quite figured out why this one works so well, but it does. Women have money too! Just be sure you dont abuse this either. Do your fair share.

cracking jokes about their weight, teasing them

Jokes are good. Shows you are comfortable around them and can talk without being nervous or scared of what they're thinking.

and the most important....I used the word NO...more than I ever have in my life.

Again, this shows major backbone. Women are always testing us guys to see just how much they can get away with. Women want a challenge. "The chase is better than the catch." Make them work for what they want. Don't give in, or they'll walk all over you to the next guy in line.

[Mish]

Small talked, not giving them a chance to reply, telling them I'm busy, didn't pick up when they called, didn't reply to texts. Looked at other women; commented on how the other women were hotter and I would get with them. Demanded that they buy me lunch at work, cracking jokes about their weight, teasing them and the most important....I used the word NO...more than I ever have in my life.

I also fail to see how the above would make women who weren't attracted to you want to immediately jump your bones. Were they really insecure women? Perhaps there was something else you were giving off that you weren't before. Maybe you stopped giving out the nagging clingliness and repulsive insecurity (I can't live without you) signals that so called 'nice guys' guys tend to give. Yes, confidence is attractive. It's even more attractive when it's not used as a tool, but as a projection of real personality.

I also hold in contempt and scrutiny any "technique" that claims they mastered a way to seduce women to a point of being fail safe.

[vashti]

I must have missed that paragraph. ^^

The girls you are going after (Jason) are idiots.

[Mish]

Not that I will continue to use these tactics, it’s just like one poster said, keep it as a safe guard, until I know the girl.

The sad fact is, you will resent each and every single girl who will fall for 'tricks'.

If you are after an advice, you are best waiting for the girl that you will click with, one that understands you, who will naturally want to be with you and doesn't require any manipulation. If you are after a partner and not a puzzle, this is your best bet.

[Gigabitch]

I agree with Vashti. They're fools. You should consider yourself lucky they didn't want you the way you really are.

[navybones]

Being a nice guy myself, I'm going to make this quick and simple to save you all time:

DO NOT MESS WITH GIRLS WHO PLAY GAMES.

Unless you find this fun and/or exciting, there's no reason to lower your morale standards to accommodate a girl who is going through a "bad boy" phase.