my problem is the opposite. mine would be something arround 8-9 which sometimes I find it too big for certain positions. I am always afraid that might put girls off, so, I do not have sex unless I am very comfortable with the girl and I am sure she i not going to be uncomfortable to comment so I can accomodate her. I mean, if she is not comfortable, I would not be offended and delay having sex. some girls say, wow or something like that, which I do not sometimes understand if it is a good or bad thing. so you see, big penis is not always an advantage.