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    I think it's anxiety. You are able to achieve an erection, there doesn't appear to be a "dysfunction". Are you able to masturbate to completion? Did you try charlieboy's advice?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    maybe it's because you are not attracted to girls... nah j/k. this is common among people when they have sex for their first few times. they are too apprehensive about what is to come and they worry about their performance. shit, i will tell you, the first time, it was the best 5 seconds of my life though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusional View Post
    maybe it's because you are not attracted to girls... nah j/k.

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    LOL. hey that thought alone could worsen his anxiety
    "Life is a bitch, and then YOU die." -my neighbor

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    I agree... It's just your first-time anxiety. Ask her to be understanding until you find yourself relaxed enough to just take her

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    Yeah she's pretty cool about it. I'm just the type to get mad at myself if I don't do something right.

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    All of this concern and worry is only going to exacerbate your problem, I'm afraid.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kalupe View Post
    LOL. hey that thought alone could worsen his anxiety
    hey, he asked what might be wrong with him and i just gave him an answer. he didn't specify if he wanted helpful answers.

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    tell yer girl to go on da pill

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    Quote Originally Posted by cheeze_guy View Post
    tell yer girl to go on da pill
    Are there black people in Montreal?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    Are there black people in Montreal?
    if you turn off the lights, everyone looks black.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusional View Post
    if you turn off the lights, everyone looks black.

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    Actually, no one looks any color cause you can't see shit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    Actually, no one looks any color cause you can't see shit.
    how many times have you turned off the lights only to see silhouettes??

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