I find male bodies arousing... some of those young gods walking about in summer, you'd have to be dead (or very self-absorbed) not to notice.
Biology IS. There is nothing wrong with having a good gander (LOL) and quick daytime fantasy, so long as that's the end of it. No different from seeing something funny and having a good mental laugh about it, IMO.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Hey that's you. My comment was based on how most men are sexually attracted to any type of woman, no matter if they are whores, prostitutes-porn stars, anything really. Doesn't matter if the man is in a relationship or not. Doesn't matter how attracted they are to their woman... most can't help but fantasize about sexing other women. It's sick. LOL! But oh well. Boys will be boys, most believe it's normal. IMO, I don't think it's normal but what can I do about it... absolutely nothing.
And maybe you didn't get the part where my comment was made based on what I believe. I don't care about what other women may do. I spoke on what I do and what I think. So when you say I don't speak for all women, I let you know that spoke for me, this woman alone. Capische?
You don't think it's normal?
Why do you think the spoils of war up until the turn of the century were to rape women?
The women and young girls, were a prize for the conquering armies. They always were, even for the most undeveloped civilizations.
Sounds to me like you have some issues in your past to come up with something so baseless.
I already said to the original poster:Good for you that you don't think about f*cking any guy you find attractive. Even though, from a male perspective that wouldn't be normal, I have enough sense to realize that women don't perceive the world the same as I. Since that is a commonality, (however prudish that may be), amongst many women that I've spoken to maybe, just maybe that is a normal mindset for women.you're trying to apply standard woman logic to the behaviors of a man. That's a big mistake.
Normal.
Shit, what the hell do you know about "normal", anyway?
What a waste of time.
It's biological - why are we even discussing this?
I love getting young, realtively healthy males as patients. (perverted, I know.) I appreciate their beauty so much more now than I did in my 20s.
Of course, I pretend to not notice.
I was talking to a friend of mine (male) who had to go through EMT training which included labor and delivery... He told me he was attracted to some of those women giving birth, and he got to look at their naked bodies.
So much for professionalism. haha
LOL. Well, I don't know about the hoagie. I'd prefer a gyro, a beer, and chips and salsa.
The earlier posts...so much truth there. I don't know what happens. I'm tellin ya, when a woman reaches down to touch the trouser monkey, men go into automated mode. Somewhere deep inside, we're actively thinking about all kinds of things, but the connection between men's thinking and what they are doing with her (whomever) sexually is very weak indeed.
Truthfully, when its all over, I often wonder why I even did it to begin with. I don't there's much logic to it. It's just a primitive part of the male brain taking charge and doing the reproductive thing. If we thought about it and the ensuing emotional costs, then we probably would just eat the sandwich and watch the football game.
That's probably why its better if people are in love before they have sex.
Yeah, very true.
It must be biology though or a deep sense of love of a man by a woman...because the male body is about the most unattractive thing The woman's body is very nice, very soft and usually smells sweet. Let's be honest...the genitalia...if one was objective about it...well, it is kind of unattractive...men's and women's. It is interesting largely because we don't have the same thingy's and so that makes it a curiosity more than anything else.
I'd rather see an attractive woman in a nice pair of jeans and a nice top than completely naked. There is something alluring when things are clothed and the imagination fills in the blanks. For example...30-something Persian women in sunglasses and headscarves...with their prominent noses and olive skin...oh, simply to die for...well, not literally, but you get the point.