Update on the jerk boyfriend...

[Gigabitch]

He has told me that he doesn't care if I go out with other people, and even said that he didn't care if I have sex with other people!

He keeps telling you he doesn't care.

It appears that he's only a jerk by accident.

He's going to accidentally be jerk again and again. Why do you love this jerk again?

[pinkpuca84]

when a guy really loves u, he wouldnt want to "share" u with anyone....especially "sleep" with anyone. trust me!
but maybe...he only said it cos he knew you wouldnt do that anyway...it makes him feel better that he makes his own "authority" to allow u date and sleep with someone else. maybe, he's scared that you might do it behind his back, which is more hurtful. so he assumed that it's better to "allow" it. and at the end when you really date and sleep with other guy, he would be able to say "well...i told her to!" rather than "i dont know why she does that to me"
i guess he's just a drama-king.

[clynn]

Hhhh.....mmmmm...interesting.

THe thing is---- you can't really break up - whether it is a trial or a real break and tell the other person to NOT date someone else.

Is there someone else on the horizon ? Is that why you are asking?