Sex vs. love making

[dem862]

For me, sex is when I just want a quickie to please myself. Lovemaking, is when I want to take the time to please her.

[asimpletwistoff]

Sex is taking, love is giving

[VincenzoG91]

...and if both of you are giving, there is no need for taking.

[YLvanna]

I guess Love making is a doing of sex with passion, intimacy and romance either in a relationship or not.

[sssspanos]

Sex and love making are JUST the same... It s just that some girls don t like the word 'sex' so we men had to find another more polite way to say the same thing :-)

[BondaraGirl]

I think it's possible to enjoy both equally but at different times or with different people. They're are guys I'd never want to 'make love' to me, but then there are guys that I'd never want to f*** me like a w****

[Am I crazy?]

Making love is always nice with all the passion and all, but sometimes just a plain old dirty **** is refreshing

[sadbunnyface]

I prefer the term love making because I only had sex with in relationships so it was about loving that other person not only just about sex and lust.

[searock]

Making love is always nice with all the passion and all, but sometimes just a plain old dirty **** is refreshing

Dirty sex is also the most passionate, in my experience.

[paythebills]

Dirty sex is also the most passionate, in my experience.

how is dirty sex more passionate than love making?

[searock]

how is dirty sex more passionate than love making?

Because both people have to completely "let go", it's like they really lose all inhibitions and all the protective boundaries come off... it's a lot more intimate and passionate than gentle, "respectful" sex.

As I've already said, to me making love simply means having sex with a person I am in love with.

[paythebills]

Because both people have to completely "let go", it's like they really lose all inhibitions and all the protective boundaries come off... it's a lot more intimate and passionate than gentle, "respectful" sex.

As I've already said, to me making love simply means having sex with a person I am in love with.

So you don't have dirty sex with someone you are inlove with?

[searock]

So you don't have dirty sex with someone you are inlove with?

I am actually saying the opposite thing. When I make love, i.e. when I have sex with a person I'm in love with, it is very often dirty and passionate. I don't think I could let myself go with a guy I wasn't in love with.

[YoungCosmo]

There's no difference between the two for me because they're both similar in one aspect: I ain't doing it!

[michelle23]

I agree with searock. It means the same thing to me. Sex to me is an act of love coz I only do it with someone I am in a loving relationship with. That doesn't mean though that I want it to be loving and gentle and respectful. I like it when he is in control, a little aggressive and I also like being in control. I love quickies especially at 2am when I cant sleep or when Im all dressed up and on the way out-to have a quick session before we go. (I like being in control for the quickies). I also love the drawn out sessions when we have more time. I don't mind being picked up and thrown on the bed-to me that is passion. I like to feel wanted and desired and I would hate it if he was too passive and just followed my lead all the time. For the longer sessions I like him being in control.