terms of endearment

[alidile]

for lack of better words....
i'm f*cked.

[Gigabitch]

Welcome to adulthood. Nobody gets here the easy way.

[Mish]

Yeh, as an adult what you really need is

People like Giga, on whose company you can always rely on

[Gigabitch]

People like Giga, on whose company you can always rely on

Read: Giga has no life and posts on LF almost every day.

[alidile]

me: howdy
him: hey what sup
me: oh you know anything and everything possible a.k.a. nothing, you?
him: lol i'm at the job
him: you miss me?
me: what the f*ck does that mean
him: nm
me: no please elaborate
him: just askin soft ali if she missed me. that's all
me: do you miss soft ali
him: perhaps

[alidile]

well giga, i hope you're on today so you can read this!

[Gigabitch]

Well, you were missing him. I know it. You know it. He suspects it.

Why not say it?

[alidile]

i think i will leave it until after christmas. i'm giving him brownies for christmas cos i didn't feel like buying him anything, even though we've been friends for much longer than this.
then i'll see what happens. we are supposed to go out tonight but as a friend suggested i should just wait until january at least to say anything and see what comes in the meanwhile.

[Only-virgins]

I'm confused here. Are you the one who is annoyed that he is falling for you after you sleep with him for not other reason than fun or is it the other way around? There is like 5 posts here that point to both freaking damn it.

me: howdy
him: hey what sup
me: oh you know anything and everything possible a.k.a. nothing, you?
him: lol i'm at the job
him: you miss me?
me: what the f*ck does that mean
him: nm

You sure acted like an a$$ for someone who was just told that they are missed. He could have said that with a silly thought.

[Mish]

Yeh Alidile, if I was your friend i'd be confused as hell

I'd proly choose not to say anything just for fear of your reaction

[alidile]

i wrote back today "hey maybe one of my personalitie does, i'll ask it next time it comes out, if you don't know what i'm talking about too bad"

[alidile]

OV - he didnt say he missed me though!

[Only-virgins]

OV - he didnt say he missed me though!

So? I don't get what difference that would make. He just asked if you miss him...whats the big deal?

[alidile]

by saying i missed him that would be a give in of sorts... a transfer of power. he'd have the upper hand and i don't know what he wants. is that way of him just finding out if i like him and then figuring out what to do from there? he knows how he feels and i know how i feel but i'm not going to give that up before he does. yes, control issue.
but it's very complicated. if this did happen and he and i did not hang out anymore even as friends you know their would be a lot of strain on the outside. we have a few of the same friends including some of our best friends and well, all our dirty laundry would be out in the open problems would arise etc.
and the actual problem OV is that i do like him and i want to know if he likes me... i did NOT plan on this and now i find myself wanting a relationship with the guy.