Originally Posted by lilwing89Is this the person YOU'D want to share your first sexual experience with, GrkScorp? How about your little sister?Originally Posted by lilwing89
Originally Posted by lilwing89Is this the person YOU'D want to share your first sexual experience with, GrkScorp? How about your little sister?Originally Posted by lilwing89
That sister comment is a good one shh. I think if someone had thoughts like this toward my little sister, and was going to attempt to pressure her to sleep with them, they'd find themself with broken ribs compliments of some brass knuckles. However, he's not thinking of things in terms of a little sister. Lilwing should just hope that she doesn't have a bigger brother that's really protective. If she doesn't, Lilwing should just make some kind of a direct move like whipping it out. I know that's a typical guy thing to say.Originally Posted by shh!
But anyway Lilwing, if you love her, you should be willing to wait. Like we've heard numerous times, a relationship is more than sex, and it shouldn't be the most important thing to you. If it is and she won't put out, move on.
lilwing,
Im sure you can find a girl who wants just sex...but honestly is it worth it? TO possibly lose your gf forever just for some meaningless sex with someone?
ANd more the likely at your age....this girl will be someone who has been around the block MANY times already.....lol.
Also you should NOT pressure your gf into sex. NO means NO......and if she isn't comfortable with things heading south....then don't push the issue. When she is ready she will let you know.....
Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....
no.. hell no... i'd want to share my first time with someone who didn't want to have sex with me at all.. and would consider it as doing me a favor... or a gift!!!... oh wow.. damn.!!!.. is that sexy!!!Originally Posted by shh!
ur looking at things for face value...
lilwing talking is the result of extream horny-ness...
i'm shur he's not naturally like that...
which is y I said it's not fair to him...
shur.. she wants to put on the whole princess act.. and that he's going to have to "earn" it...
no way.. if that's the case... go find someone else.. ur 16.. u don't have time for those games...
but lilwing... u haven't given it enough time yet... seriously.. she's 16.. give it at least 3 months... who knows.. it might even take both of u less than that..
if after 3 months goes by.. and u don't see her making even the slightest effort.. u should talk things out...
if u talk things out.. and she's still not willing to meet u halfway... then it's really up to u...
i think it's a shame to u.. for u to stick in there for such a long time, now that ur only 16.. and then find out one day that she did something for her first time with some other guy...
but give it time.. and yeah.. seriously... sex is not everything in a relationship.. it's really not...
if it was.. there'd be a whore-bucks on every corner... right next to barns n' neezboes...
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.
Ah, everyone please. Lilwing, just **** her. If she doesn't want sex move on. There plenty of fish in the sea. Plus your at an advantage, you like **** aswell. So theres more choice. Or actually, how about you post her E-mail? I'm sure I could send her the link to this page. It seems to be pretty obvious she can't take a hint.
P.S: Is she blonde?
I hella agree with this part ... take away all the sexual frustration and figure out if you really care for this person ... in reality, you're not gonna spend the rest of your life with her. When I was your age, my longest relationship was 4 months! So, with your mentality at the moment, you might as well find yourself a ho or somethin' because it doesn't seem like you really like this girl ... given that you did say you're done with it if she doesn't give you some lick ...Originally Posted by gHEXjt
Do what you feel will make you happen in the process ... it'll save time and you'll have more fun ...
no autographs, please!
The more I see, the more I don't know for sure. - John Lennon
Life is ... Too Short.
"It seems we living the 'American Dream', but the people highest up got the lowest self-esteem. The prettiest people do the ugliest things ... for the road to riches and diamond rings."
hey hey.. easy.. shh! is right... girls like to act oblivious to sex at this age... until they have sex.. and then it doesn't stop.. they get to be worst than guys...Originally Posted by Kiechi
but i do agree... lilwing's gf knows exactly what he's going through.. she's just waiting for him to say something, so she can say that she's not ready... lol.. typical... i'm not surprised at all... lol.. but after that.. she'll want to see how long he can hold off his urges for her.. and then.. after she thinks he's had enough... she'll start to tease him.. and make it frustrating.. until he "begs" for it.. and BAM!!! lilwing just fell for it.. now she'll own him.. caz it'll be like SHE did HIM a FAVOR...
no thanx...
but i'm jumping to conclusions... lilwing should just take things easy.. really slow.. i know you're 16.. i know there's this whole rush to do stuff.. but u really need to relax... everything will come in time..
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.
I'll start using sarcasm tages from now on.Originally Posted by GrkScorp
Hey, Grkscorp, I am starting to really enjoy your outrage! haha
(What does your name mean, anyway?)
Why don't you just admit you are wrong and I am right on these 4 points?
1) She has no obligation
2) She's not "bad" if she doesn't want to
3) Lilwing should not be browbeating her over it
4) If Lilwing can't wait, he should move on
It's a mark of manliness to be able to admit you are wrong, you know.
Last edited by shh!; 12-09-05 at 07:05 AM.
jeeeeeeesus ****ing christ that was prolly the deepest flame war i ever read!
anyways..i dont really care that much about sex...i got up at 5 ****ing o clock today and i went to bed at 1 this morning..i dont remembe rwhen i posted that but i know i was really tired..i say some pretty crazy shit when im tired. lol hey i care about the girl not all i want is sex.
and shh, practice makes perfect with sex...and anything at all. girls arent naturally born sex givers(meaning they arent good at giving guys pleasure)...you sound like someone who doesnt put effort in the sexual side of your life and you depend entirely and purposefully that any guy you date should just **** you the way you wanna be ****ed..well they cant read your mind. i dont feel like explaining all this to you anyways.
anyways you read completely over MY ****ing point why im starting to look at other girls.. shes ****ing ignoring me around other ppl and denying to everyone we were going out. what would you expect. if you would expect that your a pretty cold hardcore ***** that i hope i never meet.
anyways im going to bed now. school is going to be fun im dressing up as jimi hendrix and everyone is gonna laugh their asses off(its homecoming weekj)
goodnight asswipes(and non asswipes)!
this thread is retarded. not that there's anything wrong with being retarded.
Don't worry, lilwing. I'm not afraid to tell them EXACTLY what to do.Originally Posted by lilwing89
yup.. seriously lilwing...Originally Posted by shh!
when girls get more mature... sexually... they start to feel less bad.. and get that whole weird feeling out of their system about being open with their guy...
like shh! said... girls can tell their guy EXACTLY what they want... which is kinda kool..
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.
unless they suck at explaining
if u don't care about sex that much then why are you posting on here aksing people how to make he give a blowjob.Originally Posted by lilwing89
before you take this the wrong way am mearly trying to question yourself. someting everyone does at some point. its a good thing sometimes. sometimes it aint but this is good in my opion anyway.
but do u realy think believe that that u can wait. am thinking that because u'v bin going out wit her for so long that ur subconsciencly thinking it without u know that u realy do want sex with her. u'd probably even think that a simple blowjob would fix that.
i understand wah u mean. i had a girlfriend some time ago. th person i am going out with now to be honest but shes recently left school. but the time before she dumped me after a month (3 days to be accurate,we both went n holida for 2 - weesk right after the other got back so we didn't have time to see) but am guessing she left me because she was still in school and the reason she dumped me as she was emarresed so to speak of me. but i feel she has changed knowanyways you read completely over MY ****ing point why im starting to look at other girls.. shes ****ing ignoring me around other ppl and denying to everyone we were going out. what would you expect. if you would expect that your a pretty cold hardcore ***** that i hope i never meet.
anyways im going to bed now. school is going to be fun im dressing up as jimi hendrix and everyone is gonna laugh their asses off(its homecoming weekj)
goodnight asswipes(and non asswipes)!
my advice to u is to get her into a private place and has a talk to her. ask her face to face why shes ignoring, and any else that seems to be troubling you, if she doesn't want to talk about it say to her come on we've bin goig out for so long and i am part of this relationship and i deserve an answer. if she still refussies then think is she worsth it? if she doesn't want to talk you about a problem in the relationship then somethings missin. she sprobably lost interest or whatever. but i hope that doesn't happen to u dude