Originally Posted by
xxazurexx
Sounds like she is keeping you around as the 'back up' and incase all falls through with this guy.
It could also be, that she is wanting you to try and change her mind for her and to fight for her. Sounds daft I know. But sometimes females like to know how much a man cares for her and if you spill your guts and tell her that you really want to be with her, you never lost your feelings, etc, etc.....you are letting her know you care and it may be enough and for her to ditch this guy and once she is secure in the knowledge that you really want her...
I could be wrong of course.