I'm not attracted to him anymore

[disasterjohn]

I just went through the same situation... g/f dumped me cause she didnt have the same feelings for me....she still loved me but just as friends. She did it on MSN though... so do call him on the phone or do it in person... its hard but still.

Its hard to say and and its hard to take it.. but it has to be done if you really feel like it has to be done.

If its that little bit of "spark" that your missing... maybe going out on a romantic weekend or holiday may just restart what you felt to start with.

Good Luck with whatever decision you make.

[whaywardj]

You got my sympathies, John. Been there, too. We all have, I guess. Or, sooner or later, get there. Sounds like you and Phoric might have a lot to share with each other on the matter. Seeing as how you've just been through the receiving end of what she's thinking about pitching.

[someguy6785]

4 years is a long time. Are you sure that all the passion is gone? Do you feel an utter happiness when you are with him? Do you trust each other completely? Do you think he would still love you if the rest of the world stopped caring about you?

Don't get me wrong, often people just stop feeling it for no aparent reason and that usually means it's time to move on. Love is tricky like that. But sometimes we get so caught up with the problems in a relationship that we forget about the good things.