Where did the thread about posting here instead of contacting your ex go?

[vashti]

Do you hate your ex more because you see how great the men you are dating are compared to him

No. I hate him more because I hate subjecting myself to dating. It makes me anxious. I hate having strangers trying to touch me, and I hate feeling like it's an audition.

[HeartIsAching]

Remember, it's an audition for them, too.

[vashti]

True. Still sucks though. I also hate having to get rid of them when you decide you aren't interested. This guy texted me twice, saying "wait - I don't get it! what happened?"

It makes me feel guilty.

[HeartIsAching]

Hate to say it pretty lady... but that particular bit is your own problem.

Easiest way to handle it is to just say "I didn't see that we are compatible. Good luck."

[vashti]

Yeah, that's pretty much the way I did it. And then I ignored his responses.

I hate feeling like I hurt other people.

[KingZ]

I hate feeling like I hurt other people.

It isn't always bad. Last night, for instance, I brought a woman to orgasm by beating the shit out of her.

Masochists put on a hell of a Thursday night.

[vashti]

Your penis is going to shrivel and die from all the abuse, and even though you are Arab, you won't get any virgins, because you are too naughty.

[IndiReloaded]

Vash - I dealt with dating by telling the men *up front* that I wasn't looking for a relationship and was only dating to get my family off my back. This is especially helpful if there wasn't a fit. This way, they are primed up front you will likely not want to pursue a relationship. Saves them face, in a way.

I only had one guy who kept trying to contact me after I asked him to stop (he only had my dating email). In the end, I just told him I wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone and he should move on. He was pissed but left me alone after that.

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It isn't always bad. Last night, for instance, I brought a woman to orgasm by beating the shit out of her.

Masochists put on a hell of a Thursday night.

Yes, ok Mr. Grey. Are you enjoying the trilogy?

[KingZ]

Yes, ok Mr. Grey. Are you enjoying the trilogy?

I don't understand the reference.

[HeartIsAching]

Sure you don't.

[KingZ]

Your penis is going to shrivel and die from all the abuse, and even though you are Arab, you won't get any virgins, because you are too naughty.

Don't be retarded. Of course Allah will give me virgins.

[vashti]

Yes, maybe you are right. Eternally bad sex would be an appropriate punishment.

[HeartIsAching]

Don't be retarded. Of course Allah will give me virgins.

Does the Quoran say which gender they'll be?

[Over The Fence]

I'm not sure why it was deleted, but it has been restored.

[hatesthis]

Thank you, much appreciated, Over The Fence.