Some thoughts...

[Petit Papillon]

Definitely BUT... it's an interesting concept to show your ex (a few yrs on) your posts, just to give them a slight insight into how badly you loved and were affected by them leaving u.

Am I the only one who thinks this?

Sry, don't mean to derail the thread!

That just makes sense if You`re still feeling something for them,because if it`s already long time after... Who the ****ing cares? Hehehe

[lhn]

Yeah, you're right PP... thanks for kicking me into touch. <3

[Petit Papillon]

You welcome

[cmacattack1]

Definitely BUT... it's an interesting concept to show your ex (a few yrs on) your posts, just to give them a slight insight into how badly you loved and were affected by them leaving u.

Am I the only one who thinks this?

Sry, don't mean to derail the thread!

I guess if she knew about them, and really wanted to know what I said, I wouldn't have a problem with it. What are the odds of that? 1/100? The would first require her to make some contact with me, and what are the odds of that? 1/100? Multiply those two together and we are looking at a snowball's chance in hell.

To go out of my way and give them to her to say "Look at this!" seems kind of like I'm proving something. Definately wouldn't do that. I'm pretty happy with the knowledge I've gained from my experience.

Let's face it. I post like 6 times a day here. I'm obsessed with this website. Weird that I enjoy reading these stories and saying my piece?

[shheadz]

Multiply those two together and we are looking at a snowball's chance in hell.

Hahha.. That's funny.

I'm obsessed with this website. Weird that I enjoy reading these stories and saying my piece?

There's a part of me that thinks coming here is just making it harder to move on from my ex. It keeps relationships on my brain, which in turn makes me think of our relationship. Oh well.. I still need people to talk to right now.

[lahnnabell]

I know it helped me to have a distraction from my own problems. I could focus on someone else and help them when I needed to get out of my own head.

[shheadz]

I know it helped me to have a distraction from my own problems. I could focus on someone else and help them when I needed to get out of my own head.

I'm not even sure where I'd be right now without these forums. Better? Worse? I dunno. I found the place on pretty much day one of our breakup. She always laughed at called me Mr. Google, cause that's where I'd go if I had a question about anything. Doesn't bother me. I'm not going to sit in the dark when I have the whole internet in front of me.

[lahnnabell]

I'm not even sure where I'd be right now without these forums. Better? Worse? I dunno. I found the place on pretty much day one of our breakup. She always laughed at called me Mr. Google, cause that's where I'd go if I had a question about anything. Doesn't bother me. I'm not going to sit in the dark when I have the whole internet in front of me.

Word! I'm that nerd that goes to WebMD when I've got a pain in my left temple. Haha. "What does it meeeean!? I must know!"

[lhn]

There's a part of me that thinks coming here is just making it harder to move on from my ex. It keeps relationships on my brain, which in turn makes me think of our relationship. Oh well.. I still need people to talk to right now.

Yeah, I think the same but I would probably be far worse off if I didn't have this place to come to.
Keeping your brain active is definitely a helper whilst waiting for 'time' to do its thing!

If I hadn't found this place? i dunno... I should imagine I would have been far worse off. Perhaps in front of a bus? thats how it felt at the time...

All u guys helped me and I kinda see 'us' as a 'generation' lol