What Does It Mean When She Says I Need My Space

[Mathias]

Stay steady. I still expect her to drop a bomb.

She will. I give it 5 days.

[Illusional]

You'd better give her space, or she will definitely cut you out for good.

i will have to disagree with this one vash... personally i would take it as a negative. if i girl is really going to question my relationship with her, either i'm doing something wrong or she's craving another man's dick. i would give her an ultimatum. sure.. time some time to figure if you really love me or not, but be aware that i will also not wait around forever for you.

to the poster, i'm sure that you're willing to wait forever for her, but realistically speaking, give her time, but give her a time limit to decide if she wants to be with you or not. if she can't make up her mind, make it up for her and break it off and save some face. sad but true, if it comes down to that, the it's probably better this way.

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[vashti]

Actually, I agree with you, Illusional. If a girl says she needs space, she is obviously considering letting you go. You need to give her a bit of space so she could try to remember your good times, but you are right: there should be a time limit. Otherwise, you are just pathetic.

[jacobloftin]

saw her yesterday she told she missed me emotionally and sexually and she has celled me 3 times today

[ExpoNovak]

Let me translate for you. "I need space" really means "I met somebody else that I'd like to try and hook up with, but if it doesn't work out I'd still like you around because I don't want to toss you out and end up alone."

I have never, ever, in my entire dating life seen "I need space" actually mean the person needs space. Ever.