Girlfriend broke up with me over porn

[Sami09]

I agree women are unsecure when guys watch porn. I felt i was doing something wrong when he went to a strip club i felt he was missing out on
something i love my man totally and he loves me

I'm so glad I found this thread. I have a lot to say on this subject. Guys are not the only people who watch porn. I like watching porn and while it's not a usual thing for some girls, it's definitely not unheard of. I'm not the most secure person in the world and I would have been very upset if my ex went on and on about other girls and prefered the girls in the porn videos to me, but he didn't. Like most young people including me he's just interested in sex. Him watching pornography was not a big deal to me just like it wasn't to him.

Way too many girls think guys watch pornography because of something they're doing wrong. It's not the guys who need to change their habits, but the girls who need to be more secure with themselves. How many romance novels or movies have us girls watched to get that sweet goosebump butterflies in our stomach feeling? Countless times. Even though we have guys in our lives who are supposed to provide that for us. See, it's the exact same thing except for us its romance and for them its sex. It's still hypocritical of us to complain about it when we do the same thing.

Also, to whomever initially posted, your girlfriend seems like she's lost her mind. She's honestly dumping you for a few pictures on your computer? If she is so perfect and high and mighty then just forget about her. You can do much better and she can go enjoy her porn free relationship with Jesus. That might sound a bit harsh, but so is dumping a decent guy after a year just because he looks at girls on the internet. I wish my problems would have been so simple. And her threatening you with her father shows how truly immature she is. If she ever puts her father on the phone, just put your mother on the phone and watch him get his ass kicked.

[Clifton]

Damn right your mom will kick his ass.

[mammasara]

Well I can understand exactly what your talking about....I really wouldn't even try and take it any further...I'm the exact same way as she is....I dont know why its just something in the brain but she IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE.......because she cant.....no matter how much she says she willl......it takes time. A LONG TIME

[Gigabitch]

Well I can understand exactly what your talking about....I really wouldn't even try and take it any further...I'm the exact same way as she is....I dont know why its just something in the brain but she IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE.......because she cant.....no matter how much she says she willl......it takes time. A LONG TIME

Does it take, maybe.....four years?

This thread is four ****ing years old.