Do I screw over my EXgirlfriend?!!!??

[Tone]

You're accomplishing very little by doing this, except further proving that she was 100% right to dump you, for being immature and... stoopid.

[Ellynn]

Yeah back when I was 19-20......i dated this one guy and he was the first guy I ever had sex with etc. Well at the time things were going really well and then one day out of the blue he said he wasn't into me anymore etc. So we ended things. Then a few weeks later he wanted to get back together......so we did. Then things ended. Then I made the mistake of being friends with benefits with him over the course of the next year or so. We would just hook up occasionally..... I wasn't seeing anyone so I figured why not? He even emailed me a video of him jacking off. It was more funny then sexy. LOL. Then last July(over a yr ago) he text messaged me wanting to "hook up". I had been in several relationships since sleeping with him......so I told him to go and fvck off.

Ok forward to a few months ago. My friend was at a store and saw my ex with a girl and a baby. The baby was at least 6 months old and is his. So bascially it means that when he text messaged me....a year ago July....she was pregnant. Well then I found out recently they got married.

A part of me was sooo pissed that he text messaged me to hook up.....while he had a girl pregnant. I so wanted revenege..... I wanted to send her the video of him jacking off .....or show her the text messages he sent me last July on my phone.

But then I figured....well a kid is involved....and if they honestly are happy now.....then Im gonna let it be. I mean sooner or later she might find out how he is.....but thats her job.....not mine to show her. And who knows....maybe he has changed that now hes married w/ a kid?

[Ellynn]

Don't....it is immature to play "revenge" on an ex that really did nothing besides move on with their life.You should do the same.

Yeah..be the bigger person and move on yourself. Not worth losing sleep over the past...

[carpflounder]

She can take legal action against you if you give out these pics....you could end up in jail for it (I actually know a guy who did this and ended up in jail...he regretted it, of course).

If its illegal for him to pass out pics, then quote the statute.

[Jeblina]

If its illegal for him to pass out pics, then quote the statute.

I can't quote the exact statute...long story short...the guy had taken pics...she knew about the pics...they broke up....she wanted the pics....went to the local police dept. to ask what to do....they told her to get a restraining order on him to keep him from distributing the pics.....he did anyway....she talked to the local prosecutor, and he ended up in jail.

As far as I know, it is illegal to distribute any "comprimising" pics without consent. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

[carpflounder]

oh ok, someone violated a restraining order. I was curious if just showing pics would be illegal. Tk for letting me know.

[MajorGlory]

You come here asking for advise on THIS? I can understand many things when you are messed up because of a relationship end but thats so low I just dont feel any sympathy for you. She behaved quite fair towards you in my opinion so stop being a pr'ick and grow some true balls which is about facing reality with dignity and not the sh'it you talked about.
I just hope her boyfriend will smash your skull for it

[Kazan]

The harsh embrace of reality from MajorGlory's post has embraced our friend.He is now sitting at home cryinng his lil heart out......heh

[shh!]

Haha! I think I will like MajorGlory...

[Cybog]

The funny thing is, you got your sorry ass dumped and instead of standing up like a man and moving on, you cry like a pussy and resort to some lame ass shit like this to make yourself feel better.

Move on you heart broken assclown. Or as a matter of fact, spam the entire known world with the pics and see what kind of things happen to you. Either way, nothing will fill that pathetic void that has left your frail pathetic body like this idiotic relationship obviously did.

Guess what chump - NEWSFLASH - Nothing you do will make anything any better for any party involved. If you go ahead and do some stupid shit like this, shit is going to roll down hill. Chances are, she knows people who know people who know you. Do you really want this kind of reputation following you for as long as you live?

I mean, you probably already have a reputation as a selfless loser, so something like this might not hurt your rampantly devoid ego. But at the same time, maybe somewhere along the lines you might actually learn a lesson those of us who have actually grown up and been through something called puberty understand:

Maturity.

And you have none of it.

[Only-virgins]

OK, i'll try and keep this short and sweet... I want to send me EX-girlfriend's friends, nasty naked pictures I have of her. I especially want to send pics to her new boyfriends friend!

Go ahead. I cant believe girls are stupid enough to allow these pictures to be taken of them. Dont worry about being called immature by the people on here. I like these people like Cybog but they have no clue what maturity means...eye for an eye is fine by me..thats if YOU feel that way. Read your story though..it does seem like she broke up with you..people do that you know and its not out of hate towards your but rather love for someone else now..ask yoursef now then "are my reasons the same? or are my reasons out of pure hate ?".

Honestly people. I would send the pics...not because of hate though(thats wrong I think) but rather because I would find it really funny and it would put a smile on my face.

[Cybog]

You are right. I have no idea what maturity is. Please - teach me.

[misombra]

well cybog, you'll first have to give up your blanky.

[Only-virgins]

You are right. I have no idea what maturity is. Please - teach me.

The secret to it is that it doesn't exist.

[Airborne]

I feel like she has screwed me over and hurt me so many times now that I need to screw her over just so she can feel what it's like!.

Don't be stupid she hasn't been trying to hurt you she has just moved on, which is the part you seem to be finding painful, you should move on aswell. Search for someone else, and hey ya never know sometime later she may well want to get back together with you, if you can seduce her once you can do it again, though that aint guaranteed.