Originally Posted by
Incognito
What do you all make of this?
Okay, if it was me and I don't want to make you feel that you have to do this, but if I was in the same situation as you, this is what I would do.
I would seat her down and tell her. "The fact that we have sex so rarely is a problem for me, this is not working out for me and I can't go on like this. What I want to know is how this problem will be resolved and what steps you will take from your end to resolve it?" You have to be ready and know what you will do and say to bring this to the next level if she ignores you or denies this. Maybe it's time to ask yourself a question can you force yourself to continue a relationship where your needs are continuously not met? If yes, then you should drop your demands and force yourself to tolerate this. If no, then you know where to go from here.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~