Where's Indi's "monkey-girl on a branch" thread when you need it most?
Where's Indi's "monkey-girl on a branch" thread when you need it most?
“Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist”--George Carlin
Man, these things need stickies. Hang on.
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/22413-girlfriend-wants-take-break-very-complicated-situation-long-2.html#post342433[/url]Imagine a monkey hanging from a tree branch. The branch is solid, and gives her decent fulfilling of her needs, but you are a new branch she's spotted, with juicy fruit she'd like to have, but she's not willing to let go of her current branch until she's certain the new one is willing & able to support her weight.
Trouble is, there are an awful lot of good branches out there... who knows what she'll spot once she's secure in her new perch.
Last edited by IndiReloaded; 06-02-09 at 11:53 AM.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh