Originally Posted by
lostdude
Lite, I don't see the need to call my thoughts stupid. I didn't troll anyone, I've been polite and sincere. Just think that was uncalled for.
Everyone has stupid ideas. I have them sometimes, I just know better than to open my mouth about them most of the time.
You're expressing the Ginger/Marian Gilligan's island problem. You like the girl next door, but you want to do the whore too. So your three choices are: Break up with her and sleep with other people. Don't break up with her and remain faithful. Don't break up with her, screw someone else on the side risk her life, health, and happiness with your selfishness and then after she's angrily dumped you for being an ass you'll sit around wondering if you're capable of being monogamous. The latter is a question I really suggest you do not get to the point of having to ask yourself, because it is not only an ugly one, but can lead to you breaking other idealistic morals that one can only follow with a lot of self control and respect for yourself, let alone your partner.
"Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."